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I’ve been talking to a guy from hinge for a week and we’re going on a date in a week + having conversations every day.. I’m scared of running out of things to talk about on our actual date. 😬 Any advice??

Anonymous 4w

if you run out of things to talk about then yall ain’t compatible

Anonymous 4w

learning how to chain on a conversation is a good way to keep the conversation going. basically that means taking the current topic and expanding on it, or going in a new direction with it. if you ask a question, he'll give an answer, and then you'll ask him another question related to his answer to go deeper into the topic. the goal is to get him talking for most of it, bc it takes pressure of of you to keep talking, and it makes him feel good to talk about himself.

Anonymous 4w

My worst fear actually. I love keeping the rhythm going to keep the vibe there but it’s only hard if both people are being dry. I’m sure in person there will be a million things to talk about

Anonymous 4w

Anonymous

#2 4w

if you have something notable to say, feel free to add a comment here and there, and it's okay to gradually go off topic if thats where the conversation goes! that's how new topics come up. the easiest way to go about conversations is to just listen to what they say and see if theres anything that you can turn into a question that gets them talking

Anonymous

#1 4w

That and/or just being comfortable in silence with someone is chill