I’ve picked a flower off the side of the road for a first date. I would do that but I wouldn’t spend money on a first date for flowers.
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Anonymous5w
At this point I do coffee dates as first dates cause it’s casual and cheap so if it doesn’t go anywhere it’s not like I spent a ton of money for no reason. For a second or third date I’d buy flowers though
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Anonymous5w
i feel like its too over the top for a first date. i like to give flowers but only if I'm sure about or close with the girl. i dont wanna spend more money on a first date that i might not see again
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Anonymous5w
I did this on the 3rd date and got told it gave her the ick so I’ll pass
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Anonymous5w
Not a question
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Anonymous5w
Nah I don’t know about this, it’s kind I guess but also flowers are expensive and id save it for like the fifth date or something (woman here)
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Anonymous5w
Nah cuz you bring flowers for the wrong girl it’s over
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Anonymous#16w
But in hindsight I regret it. So idk if I would do it again.
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Anonymous#16w
Why did you regret it?
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Anonymous#45w
Also to double down on this, flowers are supposed to be special so if I got them for every first date I’ve been on, they’d lose their meaning
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Anonymous#45w
Hmmm he’s cooking
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Anonymous#85w
Exactly what I mean
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Anonymous#85w
Yall are dating supervillains
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Anonymous#15w
the bar is in hell
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Anonymous#25w
I became too attached early on and i felt obligated to do things like that. Again I could do it again if it ends up that way but for a first date it needs to be more casual