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So, we work at the same place, but different departments. We also see each other around, but never speak. He seems like the quiet type and not very social, so I wanna make the first move. Any ideas on how to approach him?
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Anonymous 5w

I usually favor the direct approach. Go up to him, point at him, and go “YOU! I DEMAND WE HANG OUT!” It never works for me but you might have some luck with it

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Anonymous 5w

I think we go to the same college, cuz I’ve seen him ‘round once, but never again lol.

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Anonymous 5w

Keep it simple and professional. Start with a compliment and ask if he would like to get coffee sometime

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Anonymous 5w

Don’t

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5w

What do I do if he says no? I know that’s such a stupid question and I’m not really looking for an answer, but I’m just overthinking. Ah what do I do? What if he has a gf? :/

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

If he says no, just say “oh alright, have a nice day then!” Good luck! Let us know how it goes

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