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I was going to talk to my crush today but then I chickened out😭 As I woman, how can I stop being so nervous and just talk to him? I want to eventually initiate first but I’m too nervous
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Anonymous 16h

For me I just think about the fact that we’re all people on the same planet and however they react is on them, not you

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Anonymous 15h

Honestly just have to say fuck it. I get nervous and overthink a lot but Ik I’ll regret it if I don’t say anything so fuck it.

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Anonymous 16h

Nerves are so normal, and unfortunately it comes down to just doing it before your brain comes up with more excuses. You don’t necessarily have to be direct either, make it easier on yourself by just starting a conversation about something relatable to each other / the environment / an observation abt him / or even a simple compliment about his (literally anything you see on him)

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Anonymous 9h

It's so normal to feel nervous so don't be hard on yourself if you do feel nerves. I second the advice others gave on seeing him as just another person and doing it in your brain before, but you should also consider thinking about how you can tie in what's going on around y'all with what you wanna say. For example, if you all are at an event together and notice something going on, you can ask him what he thinks of it. That way, it's easier to initiate a conversation

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 11h

LMAO. I also say “fuck it”😂

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