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Ask Men 11w
How do I get a boyfriend
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Anonymous 10w

Smile at guys, try to look happy to see them. Even if you don’t want to ask them out yourself, just initiate casual conversations with them. Try to not give off the aura that you’re annoyed at them just for existing

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Anonymous 10w

Take the initiative to approach a guy you find cute and ask him out! Secondary to that, make sure you indicate that you are open to being approached and would appreciate being asked out.

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Anonymous 11w

Don’t be ugly and put yourself out there a bit. Maybe women can offer more advice

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 11w

Damn i might jus b chopped den 🥀

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 10w

Or you’re just not putting yourself out there!

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 10w

I feel like guys don’t approach me bc I have rbf I’m a sweetheart tho smhh. How do I look approachable bc I’m not asking y’all out I’ve tried approaching guys first and it never works

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 10w

What if I am tho? Like I just want to find one w morals but I live in a red state so like … still I gotta be nice is what yall sayin ??

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 10w

Lol what’s your definition of morals?

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 10w

I mean … doesn’t like killing other ppl and like don’t idolized it either 😭 I’m talking basic shit stg like I love all humans like even the gay ones ???

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 10w

Damn, what’s the murder rate in your town?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 10w

Like I’m pretty sure most of the guys in your town don’t have a literal body count

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 10w

Don’t b dense 😂

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 10w

You said they like killing people, that’s on you. If that’s how you see the guys around you, why would you want one to be your boyfriend?

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 10w

Hmm.. in my attempt to be vague I misspoke. What I really ment was that I live in a republican state and I have very much so liberal morals if that makes sense. I want to b approachable in hopes that one day the right one will like approach me to start 🥀 obviously…. Not every guy around me has killed somebody? I never was arguing that initially. I guess, a better way to ask what I want to know is what do you guys find approachable? bc I know how to flirt back I promise😔

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