Anonymous #1 4w

all my friends are girls and I feel like occasionally but nothing crazy Like I’ve talked to guys before but it never ends up working out

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Anonymous OP 4w

I mean like casually talking to guys? In hobby clubs or classes?

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Anonymous #1 4w

No I kinda feel like everyone’s standoffish

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Anonymous OP 4w

Well I understand that, I find a similar issue with most women unfortunately. I just try to complement or do small talk with no expectations. I also have almost only women friends which makes it hard too 😭

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Anonymous #1 4w

No and props to you for that. I just don’t like feeling rejected when it’s so surface level I’m just too sensitive that way

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Anonymous OP 4w

I get it fr, I guess I personally would recommend like slight rejection/exposure therapy (this is just CBT btw) in the sense of asking a random person a question (like where the bathroom is, or where this academic building is) then maybe build up to complementing random girls while they walk by on the street, then maybe u can do it to a guy, yk like baby steps?

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Anonymous #1 4w

That’s what I have done!

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Anonymous #1 4w

It’s hard tho so don’t think ur unworthy or wrong it just is a frustrating process haha

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Anonymous #1 4w

Thanks I appreciate it

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