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I’m attracted to one of my (many) housemates and I want to ask him out but he’s said he’s never been on a date. I don’t think he has any experience with women How can I approach this? If I even should. He’s said he’s not anti-dating between house members
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Anonymous 17h

As someone who has no experience as well as someone who knows dozens of guys like myself, it would probably be very easy because they’re almost certainly gonna enthusiastically say yes. Only problem (if you consider it a problem) is you’ll have to take the lead on a lot of things. Don’t overthink it, odds are you can’t mess it up.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 11h

Seconding this, dude would probably be overjoyed to have someone ask him out. Go for it OP.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 6h

I’m usually fine taking the lead but I’m super worried about boundaries here since we live together. I already of flirt kind of a lot. And I really want to be friends with him above all else. If I invite him somewhere just us, do you think he’d pick up on that? (You can go from your experience). He has female friends so idk

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