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Ask Men 20w
hate when i tell my bf i don’t like a show and then he spends half an hour going on and on abt how he thinks it’s funny. bro i told you this stupid, why makes you think i wanna listen to you re-tell the jokes
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Anonymous 20w

It says a lot that even though you hate the show you love him enough to listen to him and his endless retelling because he loves it and you love him.

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Anonymous 20w

I listen to my friend tell me about speed limit laws because it’s his interest. He listens to me talk about insects because it’s mine. I wouldn’t research speed limit laws on my own, but I like to see him get excited about his interests

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Anonymous 20w

Just listen bro

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Anonymous 20w

This is the male equivalent of you ranting about your girl drama. He loves when you actually listen to

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 20w

As long as he listens to her rants, make sure it’s not one sided OP

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 20w

men can have drama too, its the equivalent of her ranting about something she loves but he doesn’t like fashion or taylor swift idk

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 20w

No, guys don’t really enjoy the drama like girls do. For me sharing stuff like that or like a new song I like is more than just showing it to you, it’s my way of bonding and building even more of a connection, it’s not just ranting about something you like

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 20w

dude im in a relationship a trust me both me and my bf have our fair share of drama/gossip rants, especially within our workplaces. i understand what you're saying but women can be just as passionate abt fandoms too, which is why listening is important. im just saying drama isn't exclusive to one gender

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 20w

My ex told me he didn’t like to listen to women talk about drama all the time. The same ex also said “Ooo tea” when some people nearby were arguing. Sometimes men who don’t like hearing women talk drama actually DO like drama, they just don’t like women and have yet to unpack that.

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