Sidechat icon
Join communities on Sidechat Download
Does anybody else prefer not to date white people especially if they’re in Greek life or a white female psych major? I got stalked and assaulted by a white female psych major, and other ones just seem fake, toxic, and performative.
upvote 18 downvote

default user profile icon
Anonymous 6w

I'm sorry but this just made me LOL because those psych majors really are insane

upvote 25 downvote
🍓
Anonymous 6w

Honestly as a white female psych major I don’t blame you. Some of my classmates are super toxic and weird as hell

upvote 15 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous 6w

Honestly I don’t think that there’s any major that makes me lose respect as much as Psych. The dumbest/craziest women that I’ve known have all been psych majors ☠️

upvote 11 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous 6w

As a white female with a bachelors in psych, I definitely get your point. I honestly feel like half the girls who are choosing this field just want it to flaunt that they’re a psych major. It pisses me off when anyone in this major just claims about being so mentally ill and you can just tell it’s fake and so performative. I am so hesitant to tell people I study psychology because of these stereotypes but I’m doing it not only so I can help children, but for the research and brain side.

upvote 10 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous 6w

Nope I refuse to date em they all crazy or racist

upvote 9 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> #3 6w

Yeah that makes me worried when I look for a therapist. My current therapist is good though, and my previous one was also pretty good. My current therapist is a white trans guy, and my previous one was a white Ivy-league cis woman.

upvote 1 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> strawberry_hair 6w

I’d expect them to understand racism and ableism but many of them don’t. And some of them will claim to be neurodivergent themselves, but then still be a toxic person in Greek life, like this one girl. The other one who harassed and assaulted me in my dorm was an alcoholic too. This went on for a week. Apparently I didn’t look like I lived there, even though I showed her that my ID unlocked the door. And she thought I had stolen somebody else’s ID because my hair was longer in the pic.

upvote 5 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> strawberry_hair 6w

Hope you’re doing well though. And thank you for being kind to me and others on here.

upvote 8 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> OP 6w

OMG somebody from my school found me and downvoted me

upvote 6 downvote
🍓
Anonymous replying to -> OP 6w

I’m so sorry that happened to you. I want you to know that we are absolutely taught these things in class. How racism- medical racism comes into play, how to be a safe place for all people of different experiences, how we need to take our current bias’ and change them because there isn’t any room for that in therapy. Some of my classmates are asshole- truly awful people. I’ve also had some very negative experiences with psych majors. And I wish I could say we aren’t all like that, but words wont

upvote 4 downvote
🍓
Anonymous replying to -> strawberry_hair 6w

prove that, actions will. I will always do my best to help people as best I can. As a neurodivergent queer- and newly disabled person I KNOW about how awful the medical system is.

upvote 1 downvote
🍓
Anonymous replying to -> OP 6w

I’m doing better than I was previously. I had a family crisis. I’m getting back to school soon. I’ll have my bachelors and I hope to continue helping everyone I can while I can.

upvote 4 downvote
🍓
Anonymous replying to -> #3 6w

This is a completely genuine question. What could someone who is a psych major do to break those stereotypes?

upvote 0 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> strawberry_hair 6w

Thank you so much!

upvote 1 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> strawberry_hair 6w

Yeah I thought psych majors learn that too which is what made her behavior even more shocking

upvote 1 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> strawberry_hair 6w

And she couldn’t even acknowledge that she was blackout drunk and mentally impaired as a result. She would get blackout drunk on weeknights.

upvote 1 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> #5 6w

I’m so sorry you’ve had such terrible experiences tho and I so hope that you are healing from what happened

upvote 4 downvote
🍓
Anonymous replying to -> OP 6w

We absolutely do learn these things. Some people just don’t take their own actions into consideration. Of the many people in the psych program in my school- I would say only a third actually should be therapists.

upvote 1 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> #5 6w

Thank you so much and sending lots of love!

upvote 1 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> #5 6w

Part of why I want to be a speech pathologist is because a lot of people in that field are like that too. It’s 77% white women and 95.7% women so I really stand out as an autistic trilingual (English, Hindi, Spanish) Indian guy in the room.

upvote 2 downvote
🍓
Anonymous replying to -> OP 6w

That’s so wonderful! I actually know a few people who are going down that path who aren’t the typical white women. Diversity in fields are so important!

upvote 1 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

That is the reason most of them went into psych to begin with.

upvote 1 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> #5 4w

My problem isn’t that they mostly sound fake and performative, it’s actually the opposite that I absolutely believe them when they talk about how mentally ill they are. And I do not want to be a patient in an asylum run by inmates.

upvote 1 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> #6 4w

I worked at a psych ward this summer and one of my coworkers was in the exact psych ward in a pretty intense program when she was younger so I get it trust. They do say to be in the field you gotta have something going on with you first and I feel like to a point yes but you don’t gotta flaunt yk

upvote 4 downvote