Ask Men on Sidechat | i cry like a lot. due to just the state of the world, my mental illnesses and disabilities (autism n adhd), a lack of social group. my bf has told me “after the 5th time i just stopped caring bc i cant anymore its hard for me” is this fr my fault?

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i cry like a lot. due to just the state of the world, my mental illnesses and disabilities (autism n adhd), a lack of social group. my bf has told me “after the 5th time i just stopped caring bc i cant anymore its hard for me” is this fr my fault?

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Anonymous 2w

It’s not your fault, he’s at his capacity and unable to be there for you, bf’s are rarely forever

Anonymous 2w

Ok so there is a ton to unpack but no it is not your fault. If u want me to dive deeper lmk

Anonymous 2w

theres a lot to our relationship but the underlying reason i stay is because ultimately he provides me joy and a roof over my head snd he makes me feel pretty and loved. but sometimes i teel terrible just for planning my day because ill do it when hes still tired and he gets very exasperated very quickly

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OP 2w

like even innocuous comments like “sometime today im going to clean the litter box” result in him getting frustrated or mad at me and it ends in me just repeating that i wasnt asking for him to do something in that moment. i was just telling him to warn him that sometime today im going to be doing a task he likes to help me with. fhen i cry and he gets annoyed and doesnt gaf

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OP 2w

then i do it alone because he spends the entire day on games i know he doesnt like to be interrupted on because theyre strategy based and can get hectic, but then he throws me off by immediately taking out the bag of droppings and such on top of the trash so its like i feel like i look like an asshole or like im guilt tripping him for doing it on my own