Anonymous #1 3w

I want a tall (this is 5’8+, I’m like 5’3 so I’m not looking for anything crazy) fit white fit who ideally also went to an Ivy and comes from a good home who is also ambitious but also kind and generous. The last guy I dated for that description but he moved away in December and we’ve been struggling to make it work.

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Anonymous #1 3w

I’ve also had crushes on shorter guys who were smart and wealthy but it’s important that they are blond, I really like blond men but I’m okay with a guy with dark hair if he is tall

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Anonymous OP 3w

So many typos lol, I’m a bit drunk so excuse me

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Anonymous OP 3w

I’d be more reasonable with the height thing considering you’re 5’3. I thing you should cut the Ivy League crap. It’s reasonable to want someone fit but it’ll be hard if you yourself aren’t fit

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Anonymous #1 3w

I literally said I’m very flexible if they are blond. I’m not compromising on the Ivy thing because I want my kids to be double legacies and I am fit

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Anonymous OP 3w

You know people can be smart without having gone to an Ivy League school right? Also what if your kids don’t even wanna go to college or make it into Ivy League

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Anonymous #1 3w

I totally get that but I still want that. If they are wealthy enough, I’d be willing to overlook it but idk

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Anonymous OP 3w

Sounds kinda like gold digging ngl

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Anonymous OP 3w

One of the guys that I’m talking to didn’t go to one, but his parents are alumni at my college so I’m worried that he might have been too stupid to make it. He is in the finance space and does well for himself but it’s just weird

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Anonymous OP 3w

Dawg just cause someone didn’t go to an Ivy League school doesn’t mean they’re not smart

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Anonymous #1 3w

Not really. I have money. It’s more about the social aspects of it

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Anonymous OP 3w

What social aspect

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Anonymous #1 3w

I want an Ivy League graduate

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Anonymous OP 3w

Good luck then

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Anonymous OP 3w

I think your obsession with the “status” conferred by an Ivy League degree is gonna be more of a hindrance than the actual requirement yourself. Most people are gonna be offput by this fixation, and I doubt any children you have are gonna enjoy the arbitrary pressure placed on them to go to an Ivy. I promise you where you graduate has little to do with your career success and happiness

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Anonymous oranguru 3w

lol I’m pretty happy and I’m honestly okay if I never marry. It would be nice admittedly if I met someone who connected with and like I said, I’m willing to make some concessions

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Anonymous OP 3w

And I’ve met men who fit that, although life happened. I’m still in touch with one of them. We ended things last month cause annoyingly he decided to move to Sweden for the winter. He does this every winter though and he’ll be back soon

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Anonymous OP 3w

That’s a good attitude to have honestly, I definitely don’t like how people tend to sacrifice their standards and expectations just to get into a relationship. I do think there’s some merit to the fact that we often assume we would never be able to compromise on one thing, but when we actually start dating someone we truly connect to, we realize that thing didn’t matter as much as

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