Anonymous #2 13h

Like going on dates and talking daily for 3 months before you’d make it a relationship?

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Anonymous OP 12h

I’m not one to talk to someone daily, even with close friends and family, but yeah going on dates and getting to know them for 3 months

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Anonymous #2 10h

have you ever had a successful relationship not talking to her daily? i feel like that’s kinda wild

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Anonymous #4 10h

That was my thought, I couldn’t date a man who’d go that long not wanting to talk to me

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Anonymous OP 10h

yeah like why do you not want to know what i’m doing constantly? not obsessed enough. i just had a guy string me along in a situationship for 5 monthly but at least he talked to me a lot

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Anonymous #3 10h

this is so unattractive tbh, having to ask a guy why he doesn’t want to be your bf is crazy

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Anonymous #4 10h

Ok so not what I mean, but the guy I’m seeing texts me about things at least a few times a day wether just to flirt or to talk about a show or each other days

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Anonymous #4 10h

No shit thanks

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Anonymous OP 10h

it’s not realistic to text people constantly i didn’t mean it literally but like i’m always wondering about what they’re doing yk, but yeah what was the question, like do i think that’s enough texting?

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Anonymous #3 10h

maybe i read what you said wrong but did you not just say you’d ask her after she asks about other women? or are you saying you tell her you’re seeing other women and you never ask

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Anonymous #4 10h

More that I’d be too nervous to ask to be my gf and and we’d be dating long enough to the point of “why hasn’t he asked me yet”

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Anonymous #3 10h

yeah well you should put your pride aside, you can tell if a girl is really feeling you i think, and it would make her feel really good if she doesn’t have to ask

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Anonymous #4 10h

Again, obviously yes

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Anonymous #4 9h

If I just met someone I’m definitely not attached enough to talk daily, but I’ll still do multiple conversations a week. I’ve been in multiple long term relationships, but I think you’re confusing sporadic short texts with what I mean of 3-4 full/lengthy conversations a week either over the phone or in person. I’m not going to do vapid small talk with someone everyday and call that a relationship, I’m going to talk about things that interest us and matter

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Anonymous #2 9h

i still feel like that’s not enough personally. i feel like a good morning just to be like hi i’m alive have a good day and maybe give any important update you want to share, and then a good conversation that night. i would just want to talk to someone im dating more often and i want them to want the same

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Anonymous #2 9h

I don’t need a good morning and goodnight, but a conversation a day at least is good, I’m not talking immediately but like after two weeks of seeing each other it’s normal to talk daily- I wouldn’t date someone who wouldn’t talk to me daily and wouldn’t to really date for 3 months

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Anonymous OP 2h

Well then it’s a good thing I’m not trying to date either of you 😂

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