Definitely something they should know especially if they’re a longtime partner

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In my opinion if you don’t feel comfortable talking about your sexual needs with that person then that person isnt the one

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If it’s something where “let him find out” means you get scared or freak out during intimacy or something like that then yes he should know

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100% tell him, his response will also lyk if you should fuck

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you should tell any kind of sexual partner for your sake but also so that they know what's going on and don't get put off by it when it happens

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Informed consent requires that any additional risks involved in an act of intimacy be clearly communicated in advance. Yes, you ought to tell them.

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Tell him when you’re ready. And don’t have sex until you’re ready.

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