Thatâs the thing is that most of us, when thereâs no other sign than finishing, donât know if youâre enjoying yourself or not unless some noises are being made, and finishing isnât always the teller either cuz many dudes can fuck a girl he hates or isnât into and still finish. For many of us, at least some noise tells us that we feel good in some capacity and it makes us more comfortable for coming back for more if that makes sense
Think about how uncomfortable you would feel if you were having sex with a girl and she was dead silent. Maybe you assume sheâs enjoying it, but the absence of any signals to confirm that would probably make you doubt yourself and make it harder for you to be in the moment without worrying about whether youâre doing something wrong.
Trying to intentionally give more verbal signals that youâre enjoying yourself(moans, saying it feels good, etc) isnât faking anything if you actually are enjoying yourself. Itâs just being more intentionally communicative. And once you get used to it it stops feeling like an affectation and becomes more natural.
Whispering counts but what the hell is that đđđđđŸ whispering definitely counts for me tho, I had a deaf ex who had cochlears and he usually took them off during sex but one day he didnât and I asked him why and he whispered in my ear âI wanna hear you babyâ. That was 4 fucking years ago and I still think about that shit đ best orgasm of my life