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i am in a pretty male dominated field of study and i have a lot of guy friends. i have a consistent group that “lets me (?)” hang out w them. i get food w them, watch movies, play games, study, and js chill w them in general. they have nicknames for me (1
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Anonymous 1w

and make jokes w me and include me in convos and gcs. they make the effort to tell me to hop on the games w them and join them in stuff. they lowk playfully bully me and stuff but i think it’s funny. this is like genuine friendship right. i don’t mean is this platonic or not but like. they rlly do like me as a friend? it’s hard to digest that they treat me like an equal in a way yk

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Anonymous 1w

That seems to be a friend yea

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Anonymous 1w

Yeah honestly. I don’t see any reason why it wouldn’t be. That’s sounds like a standard friendship

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Anonymous 1w

I’m not a guy but I’m a fellow girl who’s always had a lot of guy friends!! You’re definitely part of the friend group. It’s an amazing experience. Cherish them :)

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Anonymous 1w

You’re one of the guys, just don’t fall or let one catch feels, you don’t want kicked out

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Anonymous 1w

That sounds like a pretty good description of a dude friend group. That’s how they would treat you if they like you as a friend and feel comfortable around you which I would argue is just as important.

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Anonymous 1w

sounds like you’re part of a friend group. Is there any reasons you feel excluded?

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Anonymous 1w

Sounds my friends

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Anonymous 6d

Sounds like yall friends

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1w

omg no not at all. it js is a little strange to wrap my head around yk. like that i’m the only girl and i still get treated as an equal completely but lowk get picked on a little but it feels so great to hang w them they make me happy

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

it sounds to me like there’s a chance the joking hurts you a little more than you realize, might be worth asking some of them to tone it down a little? but if you’re happy with your place in the group, then that makes it a good friend group.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

Guys always pick on each other. It’s basic bro code; if someone is going to crashout or get butthurt over some light razzing, then they shouldn’t be in the group. Think about it like when chicks say stuff like “Whattuo bitches” to their friends.

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 1w

*whattup

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 1w

idk i think bc im the only girl in the group i js feel very “pick me” 😭

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