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Saw a video of a guy saying before you hit on a woman imagine a bigger guy than you doing/saying the same exact thing to you and I’m curious if yall think this advice is legit or not
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Anonymous 19h

I think bro is just in the closet unless it’s a “see if it’s intimidating” type deal

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Anonymous 15h

The issue with this is that I am not into men much less a larger man so I would find it unwelcome no matter what. But a lot of women prefer men that are bigger than them. In other words there is a right and wrong way for the woman but wrong regardless for me, so I’m not sure this way of thinking works.

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Anonymous 10h

Jesus Christ you’re all so dense. Who said shit about being gay tf

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Anonymous 11h

As a already tall ass guy this is shit advice but to short kings it’s valid The advice is lk heightist

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Anonymous 19h

Well I’m not bi or gay so like…idk if that applies to me

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 19h

It was advice on how to make sure you’re not creepy/intimidating unintentionally. They pointed out a lot of guys think of “well if a woman did this to me it’d be okay” but a lot of men don’t feel intimidated by women the same way a woman would be intimated by a man. So picturing a taller more muscular man by their logic would help decide.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 19h

Read the other response I left! Picture a larger more muscular man hitting on you in the same way you’d hit on a woman. If it would make you uncomfortable or intimated outside of not being into men, reflect on how you approach women. This was the guys point in the video^^

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Anonymous replying to -> pirosnake 15h

I think the point is to ignore the fact of attraction and just focus on are the actions themselves intimidating. And plenty of women would find any man hitting on them unwelcome. The point is it actively coming off as threatening, intimidating, or creepy. A buff gay man looking you up and down as he walked by would be unwelcome but less intimidating than if he cat called you yknow?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 13h

So catcalling is the preferred option.

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Anonymous 11h

What does this have to do with anything? And woman can be submissive on a larger scale because this is an enforced gender norm. Consider men with crying. There’s no biological reason men don’t cry, in fact crying is very healthy. But societal expectations lead men to cry less.

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Anonymous replying to -> pirosnake 11h

Ohhh so you’re just an incel cool. And can’t read either.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 11h

Oh so you can’t recognize sarcasm. Got it.

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Anonymous replying to -> pirosnake 11h

‘Twas humorous and I stand by it

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Anonymous replying to -> pirosnake 11h

Yeah man because it didn’t read as sarcastic, men are genuine creeps here (women too) so I hear a creepy statement I’m not giving the benefit of doubt that it’s actually a joke.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 11h

You saw a ~15 year old meme image and went “This man must be low key fr, rn”?

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 10h

What 😭?? It’s literally a hypothetical, if an 8ft tall beast of a man was making a pass at you in the same way you make passes at women would you find it creepy or not? This concept of someone bigger and more physically powerful than you was what the thought exercise intended

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 10h

Pretending I’m 8 feet tall ain’t gonna help shit anyway I thought you meant like over 6 foot

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 9h

What??? That has nothing to do with my post??

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