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Ask Men 20h
do guys really care about ig like that? My bf is kinda mad at me bc I posted a selfie on my story without showing him first
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Anonymous 20h

Thats really controlling if your bf makes you submit your selfies for review... you dont "lose that right" to privacy or self expression once youre in a relationship, there should be mutual trust there

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Anonymous 17h

Like other people are saying, I would agree with him if your picture appeared to be meant for the male gaze, but he doesn’t need to get every selfie lol, I mean obviously if he knows about it he’s on Instagram too and I bet he follows at least a few other girls

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Anonymous 18h

Is it some cutesy shit or are you looking for attention? No 1/2 naked bikini pics when you have a man. No accessible cleavage. Like just show him respect. Now, for him? Yeah he’s tweaking out and being insanely controlling. You’re entitled to run your own life. Be all cute and shit.

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Anonymous 20h

Yea you lose that right once in a relationship if you wanna be as respectful as you should

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 20h

Shouldn’t be desiring other male attention like that and if u wanna show ur girl friends send to them in a group chat i do that sort of thing all the time and opt to not story post to respect ppl

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 20h

I don’t desire other male attention i have a private acc and ppl who follow me r ppl ik .. I genuinely js wanted to post a selfie i really don’t get this it wasn’t provocative at all

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 20h

Honestly I think it kinda is as well. It’s more so he js wants to see my selfies and doesn’t want me to post them i think

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 19h

yea if it’s a priv ig he’s tripping I was more thinking 1700 followers type public account

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 19h

Bro needs to realize youre still an autonomous person and being in a relationship doesnt make you beholden to his whims. Sounds like you need to have a convo with him on boundaries

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 19h

Def not😭😭 more like 360 followers

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 19h

Yea Ur right🫩🫩

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 19h

1700 isn’t that many. My highschool had double that many people

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 19h

Holy fucking bop mindset

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 18h

Bro get out of here with ur misogynist ass mindset

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 18h

You sound like someone who hasn’t felt the wind on your face

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 18h

Excessive not accessible lol I’m silly

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 18h

Nah bro people who come from more populated areas or people in a lot of extracurriculars just have more

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 17h

Like 1k is the minimum I see from anyone, even very introverted guys, who I’ve met from larger cities

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 17h

No it’s just a cute selfie lol

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 12h

Then you’re good and he’s the problem!

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