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why is being racist a surprising dealbreaker for white guys? a white guy i was talking too literally started saying the n word and i immediately cut him off. he got mad and said im being "sensitive" bc im "not even black" like wtf
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Anonymous 10w

That’s crazy. Racism is bad no matter what race you are

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Anonymous 10w

It’s only an issue for morally repugnant loser white guys. If a girl is anti racist that’s a good thing to most of us normal white guys

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Anonymous 10w

As you should queen

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Anonymous 10w

Yes bro a white dude I was talking to said something crazy abt Asians and I stopped talking to him and he said the same thing but with Asian “ur not even Asian why are you mad” and it just pissed me off more

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Anonymous 10w

Mind you these opinions don’t come from nowhere this type of behavior is normalized through adolescence. Slavery was not that long ago!

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Anonymous 10w

White people and their commitment to being racist are weird af

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Anonymous 10w

Some men take edgy humor to the extreme. Clearly he was just a dumbass

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Anonymous 10w

at a certain point it puts you at risk too, because if the “wrong” person hears that… you are both in danger

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Anonymous 10w

Nah homegirl, you did the right thing cutting him off. As to why that may be a deal breaker- well he’s a peace of shit

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Anonymous 10w

Bc most white women have no back bone and will excuse a guy's racism, political stances, or religious beliefs because they're too happy to be a bird. You probably know a girl like this yourself. Most men sincerely believe a woman will not leave them/not go out with them for their beliefs/anti social behaviors and most of the time, they're right unfortunately.

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Anonymous 10w

This is NOT a universal experience. Most men don’t participate in racism.

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Anonymous 10w

i’ve met way too many girls who were like “my boyfriend will sometimes say racist stuff but he’s just joking around w his friends” … and you… apparently… those girls are weird, but needless to say there are definitely people enabling this ugly behavior & normalizing it 🙃

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Anonymous 10w

I’m black and I find it fucking hilarious that racist are so obsessed with us even tho they to hate us like they go to sleep and wake up thinking about us and honestly I welcome it let them be racist and proud of it so that way we know who’s nothing more than a cowardly little b!tch

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Anonymous 10w

They’re mad they’re being outcompeted by people with empathy.

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Anonymous 10w

Bc white guys benefit from racism whether or not they make funni jok, so even if we don’t indulge the goalpost gets moved and we’re still treated as if we’re complicit anyway. That being said tho fuck the n words im not defending allat, the acts of saying the n-word I mean not black people

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Anonymous 10w

There have been a few times I was talking to white guys and they literally said the n word in front of me and were shocked when I got upset. To make it worse, I’m literally black 😭 what did they expect

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Anonymous 9w

i had a white guy bring up that he thinks mexicans are lazy during our date... im a black woman for context. he then tried to convince his way into my apartment after i told him multiple times he should probably "use the bathroom" elsewhere

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Anonymous 10w

I feel like most guys are probably not racist. And we don’t like racism. There’s just something wrong with him

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Anonymous 10w

It’s not surprising but it’s dumb as hell. Saying the n word is not the same as being racist (but calling a black person the n word probably is)

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Anonymous 10w

Its just a word

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Anonymous 10w

As a minority, people think a lot of things are racist that I don’t care about. I don’t say the n-word because people say it’s racist, however, other than that people say it’s racist it’s just a word.

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Anonymous 10w

he right

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Anonymous 10w

Btw yall are getting offended by words here

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Anonymous 10w

Sounds like you are sensitive

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Anonymous 10w

I’m a white guy, I say it around friends and sometimes people I just met but never to a black person. And I usually use it in the this my “buddy” replace with “nword” rarely in a derogatory way and it’s funny how upset yall are because there is literally nothing you can do about it

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 10w

if you don’t see how the n word is racist you’re just not bright

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 10w

Truthful. And you haven’t done actual research associated with the word. Tbh black people also shouldn’t say it but my people may never learn 😔

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Anonymous replying to -> #11 10w

Ur literally chum

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Anonymous replying to -> #11 10w

Ppl still getting raped and murdered for their religions and cultures and yall are bitching about ppl saying words.

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Anonymous replying to -> #11 10w

No ur 100% right there are people getting killed 100% no one said that’s not true but neither is okay that’s like saying ur a good person because u don’t murder people but u slap hoes😭like bro ur still a shitty person (not actually idk u in person)

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 10w

I hate how people have so much access to the internet yet they are still negligent to the weight of history.

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Anonymous replying to -> #13 10w

So we take in every occurrence in history before we decide to remark?

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Anonymous replying to -> #11 10w

Why is it such a hard concept to just respect others like it doesn’t even really need to be that deep if u don’t want to do the research don’t but at least respect everyone

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Anonymous replying to -> #11 10w

No that’s not what I’m saying. The n-word has been used to demean African Americans for hundreds of years by mainly White people. Now the word has been reclaimed by the community. Going a word that has been so derogatory, demeaning, demoralizing, into something of solidarity. Now is every member of my community going to use it in a non-demeaning way? No. However, it’s something that is now intended to stay within the community. There are definitely no supposed to be any outliers using that word.

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Anonymous replying to -> #13 10w

I hit the word limit so I had to cut some words short 😔

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Anonymous replying to -> #13 10w

It’s okay that was beautiful!!!

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 10w

THANK YOU!! THATS WHAT IVE BEEN TRYING TO GET PEOPLE TO UNDERSTAND

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Anonymous replying to -> #13 10w

Idk if ur a queen or king but thank you!

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 10w

(I’m a king) but you are so welcome 🙏

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Anonymous replying to -> #13 10w

🙌🏾

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Anonymous replying to -> #11 10w

I’m so happy that you are able to worry about one community and not the other. However I don’t have that choice because I’m subjected to racism all the time. By this comment I can tell you aren’t African American so obviously you wouldn’t know why it’s bad to say the n-word if your not black.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 10w

Physical violence isn’t good period. No one’s gonna die if some teen/ kid says a slur. There’s no lasting damage. It’s a word. Racism should be reserved for separation and actual bad causes not words

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Anonymous replying to -> #13 10w

Of course I know why it’s bad. The issue is is that I live in 2026 now and not during the topics relevant time. It’s disgusting for you to say you’re subjected to racism then immediately make a remark referring to my race. Look in the mirror before you start calling out mfs.

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Anonymous replying to -> #11 10w

That’s just incorrect my brother in Christ yes physical violence is never the answer but u do realize we had a war over slavery Lmaoo like u do realize there were people in fact my grandparents were slaves brother ur so lost in the concept of “it’s a word” bc ur ignorance maybe due to u just being to young maybe the school system or maybe ur upbringing idk but to act like there wasn’t any type of physical violence done is… quite frankly stupid

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Anonymous replying to -> #11 10w

But that’s not how that has happened historically or today! I agree that violence in a community is bad however you don’t get to disrespect and disregard another. White people made the word to dehumanize us for years and when that didn’t work as effectively they moved on to something else. Legislation, housing, education, etc. We reclaimed the word in solidarity and it’s for someone to use it outside the community holds a totally different weight than us saying it.

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Anonymous replying to -> #13 10w

Ur really hitting this on the head and idk who u are but this makes me happy that people like u are aware that’s these barriers still exist yes we are not “Slaves” but slavery still exist instead of whips we now have pen and paper it’s just gotten more modern over time

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Anonymous replying to -> #11 10w

I made a comment stating that your aren’t African American based on the way you spoke. That in itself isn’t inherently racist. And another thing, you said you’re not living during the topics’ relevant time. How is racism against African Americans not relevant today? Our current administration is racist among a plethora of other things I can’t say. However, there was a huge issue with gerrymandering a few weeks back that would SNUFF out my community’s voice to vote in Tennessee.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 10w

That means a lot thank you!!!

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 10w

I don’t say it to any black people so what’s the problem?

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Anonymous replying to -> #13 10w

My mom would get her ass beat if she said fuck but now it’s socially acceptable to say it so what’s the difference?

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 10w

Well brother that’s just ur character lol ur only do what ignorant white people do (not all white people are like this) but i get it u like the “culture” but don’t like the history

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Anonymous replying to -> #13 10w

Ofc

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 10w

So you didn’t read a thing I just typed… It’s a word that has been used to dehumanize my people. Then was reclaimed by MY COMMUNITY, so it’s something for the community to use. With the historical weight behind it, other who aren’t African American shouldn’t be using it because that is inherently racist.

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 10w

Because it doesn’t make sense how can u as a white male make a term that ur ancestors made up as a way of endearment??? Pls explain

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 10w

I know the history of the word😭😭 I’m just not going to let something that happened a long time ago effect what and how I act around my other white friends it’s not ignorance because I understand why it’s so offensive and I respect black people I have a lot of black friends I’m not racist

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 10w

Like as a black African American male please explain to me how that makes sense dawg some people just be lost to brainrot in this world

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Anonymous replying to -> #13 10w

Didn’t know words had color, and “one” word is only for a one race. My mouth moves so why can’t I say it when I’m around white people?

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 10w

So ur larping??

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 10w

One let’s get this straight, you can have black friends and be racist. Those two thing do not have a positive correlation. Two, if you know the history why use it. It’s something for the community to use, not for those who aren’t.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 10w

Not sure how vocal cords works but here is the run down. I pull up to my white buddy’s house, knock on the door and when he answers I say what’s up “nword” simply as that, no harm no foul

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Anonymous replying to -> #13 10w

Alright then so continue to be as offended as you want by it. Of course that’s going to stop it because any time someone does something you don’t like, you can just tell them to stop and it works.

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 10w

I have white friends but I’m not yelling cracker with my black friends😭😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 10w

Ok that’s your choice not mine😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 10w

I don’t see how this has any relevance to what I decide to do

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 10w

Yes it is a choice 100% but I don’t do it bc I give a fuck and respect others simple

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 10w

It’s because it’s a slur, that’s why it’s for one race. It has been reclaimed for my people by my people.

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 10w

Larping so hard

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Anonymous replying to -> #13 10w

It’s a slur when used against a black person, I don’t use it in that way

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Anonymous replying to -> #13 10w

A word doesn’t get claimed. You don’t own anything. You don’t get the right to tell people what to do and they do it. Understand people have free will so they don’t have to listen to your opinion.

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Anonymous replying to -> #11 10w

This person knows what’s up

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 10w

But why tho😭 yall aren’t niggas so when u say what up nigga Thats larping

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Anonymous replying to -> #11 10w

You normalizing it is also part of the problem!!! You are devaluing the issue and not making it a big deal when it is.

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Anonymous replying to -> #11 10w

Well ofc dickhead u can use that answer for a lot of things doesn’t make it right but that ur character at the end of the day

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Anonymous replying to -> #11 10w

No one is saying that do as u pls brotha but at least do the research and understand that if people got free will to say the word then people also got free will to react however they react

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Anonymous 10w

Then why said it u said u know the history u said u don’t want to be black then why say it?? Like there is literally no point if u don’t want to be black😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #11 10w

Yes but you have been educated on the history of the word, how it is use and who it is for. Yet you still defend the racism tied to it. Why?

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 10w

Hey I never said you guys are wrong for reacting the way you are, it’s just not how I view the word, I am fully aware that it can get in a lot of trouble some say, it’s not going to stop me. People smoke and know it’s back for them and they keep doing it

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Anonymous replying to -> #13 10w

Explain exactly how it’s racist if I say it around white people in a non derogatory why?

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 10w

100% then keep doing u brother and move on u know when to say and when not to that’s enough to know u shouldn’t say it if u gotta only use it around certain people

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 10w

Because words have meaning. You can’t just say an actual slur and think that it’s not racist. However, while you do have free will, you cannot count on people’s reactions. You might one day fuck around and find out.

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Anonymous replying to -> #13 10w

On my grandma soul😭😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 10w

you're racist!

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 10w

My sister in law is black. My nieces and nephew are black. Even if they weren't however i respect people's cultures. The word is slur!! Plus using it in the context you are doesn't even make sense bc it's literally means a black man, using it to refer to white people is just an incorrect use of the word. There r SO many other words you can use to refer to your friends. You're a shitty person and i hope a women leaves u too one day to maybe prompt you to be better.

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Anonymous replying to -> #20 10w

literally this, and tbh i hope he does get caught one day

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Anonymous replying to -> #20 10w

Agreed. There was this really racist guy at my college and he lasted 1 month. He kept saying wild Nazi shit, wearing durags while calling people slurs, and tried SAing a girl. Everyone made a petition on YikYak to jump his ass and people made like actual flyers of the day he turned 18 so everyone would know. He dropped out before we could. His buddies then became the targets

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Anonymous replying to -> #12 10w

saying the n-word is not humor, it’s racism.

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Anonymous replying to -> #16 10w

ainnoway we got a “not all men” in the comments. pls say something more meaningful

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Anonymous replying to -> #22 10w

Don’t tell that to me, tell that to the guys I’m talking about

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Anonymous replying to -> #23 10w

Glad the racists exposed themselves so I could block them cause I KNOW some of them be in Black Chat

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Anonymous replying to -> #15 10w

which has immensely negative historical context....

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 10w

Just because slavery happen a long time ago, the affects it put into place are still present in todays society, and will probably be for decades to come. If you truly were not racist you wouldn't say it all. You're disrespecting black ppl by saying behind their backs. I know of your so called black friends knew that you say it, they wouldn't be friends with you.

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Anonymous replying to -> #12 10w

except he was being funny, in fact he made me deeply uncomfortable.

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Anonymous replying to -> #24 10w

no yeah im NOT one of those girls

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 10w

wasn't*

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 10w

WAHHHHH 👶👶. Ill use it anyway because its funny.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 10w

just to be clear “and you” was referring to the fact that those men also feel comfortable making those jokes with those girls around. texting is hard.

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 10w

What the actual fuck is the obsession with it??? Just don’t do it. You think you’re want (not a need) to say it is more important than the millions of black people that don’t want you to. Just say you’re not a good person.

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Anonymous replying to -> #11 10w

If your argument is “it’s a word, it’s not a big deal” then it shouldn’t be a big deal for you to just not say it💀 like why are you turning this into a double standard lmao

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Anonymous replying to -> #15 10w

If you have to use racism to be “funny” then you just aren’t funny

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Anonymous replying to -> #26 10w

Humor is subjective. Maybe its not funny to you, but its funny to me any many other people.

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Anonymous replying to -> #27 10w

probably??!

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Anonymous replying to -> #22 10w

Ok sure it is 🙄

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 10w

Those attackers belong in jail. Fucking freaks

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Anonymous replying to -> #27 10w

Nothing violent actually happened dude. They just became the laughingstock because they suddenly were saints and not racist as soon as the guy left. Just some yes men and nothing anybody wanted to waste time on

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 10w

Everyone is so pathetic these days

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Anonymous replying to -> #27 10w

Yes, he does belong in jail for assaulting that girl. That nazi bitch is a fucking freak.

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Anonymous replying to -> #27 10w

Okay? You weren’t there. He nearly burned down his dorm twice because he couldn’t cook microwave mac and cheese. His first words on campus were “where the good pussy at?” He tried threatening some of our football players with a gun he “definitely” had to “go back to their own countries”. Any time he got in trouble he called up his rich dad and started crying to him saying to call his lawyer. He drugged a woman and tried to assault her. This guy deserved a good punch to the face

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 10w

U should have done it then pussy

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Anonymous replying to -> #27 10w

So first the people trying to jump him should go to jail and are freaks and now I’m a pussy for not doing it? Dude you are lame

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 10w

Both are true

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Anonymous replying to -> #27 10w

Sure man

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Anonymous replying to -> #12 10w

There’s a difference between a dark humor joke and outright racism dawg.

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Anonymous replying to -> #17 10w

They have nothing to cling to.

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Anonymous replying to -> #27 10w

imo anyone who says the n word is racist. context doesn't matter. it means one of two things. 1: you don't know the history of the word, like maybe English isn't your first language and you didn't know its significance. 2: you DO know the history of the word and use anyway. incorrectly, mind you bc again it literally refers to a black person, specifically a black man. This goes for literally any slur. I don't even like it when men say something is gay.

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Anonymous replying to -> #15 10w

It's not that subjective. You're just not funny. Man I wish yik yak wasn't anonymous so all of y'all on this post could get kicked out of your colleges. If that happens or when some evidence of you saying the n word comes to light in front of the wrong crowd and you get beaten down, i bet you won't be laughing.

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Anonymous replying to -> chef_ghost 10w

You earned yourself a follower

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 10w

Still a word and I still find it funny. Perhaps if you removed the stick from your behind youd be happier

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 10w

Also wanting me to be removed from college over a word is crazy considering my first amendment. God forbid you ever get elected into office

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Anonymous replying to -> #15 10w

stop throwing a fit & leave

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 10w

Thank you

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Anonymous replying to -> chef_ghost 10w

You should start reading more books

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Anonymous replying to -> #15 10w

Lil man it’s much more than a word it’s still actively used to try and dehumanize my people when people like you use it it’s a reminder that yall don’t see us as equals when yall use it it reminds us that no matter what we do yall will never see we human

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Anonymous replying to -> #15 10w

What makes you think I don’t read

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Anonymous replying to -> #11 10w

There’s lasting damage just because you can’t see or understand how painful that word is doesn’t mean there isn’t damage because it’s there and it takes forever for it to go away

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 10w

Saying the n word isn’t inherently racist. Is a black person who calls another black person the n word racist? If not, why? Its just a word and context matters. It is only racist if directed towards someone with racial hatred. Is it racist for a white guy to call another white guy the n word? Or what if someone says it when quoting someone else?

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Anonymous replying to -> #15 10w

Hell no if you’re not a black person saying it regardless of context is racist because you either don’t want to know the history behind the word and why we chose to take it back or you just don’t care about the psychological damage that word can bring

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 10w

I should also bring up the point that the n word is only so toxic in the minds of so many people because those people chose to assign a significant amount of weight to that word. If everyone agreed to not take offense from the word, the word would then be meaningless regardless of historical usage. You chose to become so enraged at something completely abstract and it bewilders me that you cannot even realize youre doing so.

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Anonymous replying to -> chef_ghost 10w

I see all people as equal under the law. You chose to become offended by a word. If you grew up, took responsibility for own your life, and decided not to be offended by what other people say, you would recognize all the time youre wasting by whining and crying.

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Anonymous replying to -> chef_ghost 10w

Youre logic is racist. Its either everyone who says it is racist or no one who says it is racist, there cannot be selectivity for who get to say a slur or not. Slurs can be used in a bigoted racist manor but that does not also mean the usage of the word is inherently racist. Regardless of history the word only has as much weight as you chose to give it.

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Anonymous replying to -> #15 10w

So not only are you ignorant you’re willingly ignorant there’s no point in arguing with someone as bigoted and dumb as you hate has already corrupted your heart

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Anonymous replying to -> #28 10w

This might shock you. But what the both of you just said was racist.

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Anonymous replying to -> #28 10w

Again, tell that to type of guy #12 is talking about.

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Anonymous replying to -> pirosnake 10w

You’re a known racist hush

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Anonymous replying to -> #15 10w

You sound slow. You’re not black why do you want to say it so bad 😭 just don’t say it? Are you that desperate and racist that you’re doing mental gymnastics to support saying a slur that isn’t for you?

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Anonymous replying to -> #15 10w

You’re literally racist you don’t see anybody equal to shyt.. why do you feel so comfortable forcing yourself to say a SLUR?? Are you okay?

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 10w

Ngl thunder gotta strike you dead 😭 you CANNOT be on this earth with us pure evil

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Anonymous replying to -> #15 10w

To answer your questions. no it's not racist if a black person says it to another black person. why? bc they've reclaimed the slur for their own use to refer to one another. it's only racist if a non black person says it, whether it's out of hatred or not! yes it is racist and grammatically incorrect for a white guy to say it to another white guy, or when quoting a black person. hope this helps!

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Anonymous 10w

-25 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #15 10w

Whats is really going on is that you and everyone here defending the n word are all extreme narcissist. you have an immense amount of jealousy over black peoples ability to say the word. it bothers you so much you say it anyway bc it the negative attention you receive feeds your ego. i'm sorry if you didn't get enough attention as a child where now u had to resort to using racial slurs for a crumb of attention

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 10w

You trying to insult me doesnt make your argument any more right or superior. I will continue to use the n word not because i have some unfounded hatred for blacks, but because people like you find the word so weighted that you would literally lose your mind over a word. To me, subjectively, its hilarious.

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Anonymous replying to -> #31 10w

Not racist and i dont force myself to say the slur, i say it rather freely. I dont say it around blacks out of respect, but i dont appreciate you tone policing me considering youre unable to rebut me with a valid argument.

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Anonymous replying to -> #15 10w

whats funny is you literally just proved my point? you only say it bc you're desperate for attention! you are so narcissistic that you're literally doing all this mental gymnastics to try to put the blame on everyone else for getting offended or uncomfortable when you use a racial slur. i don't expect someone as pathetic as you to understand that since narcissists themselves can never be the ones in the wrong.

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Anonymous replying to -> #15 10w

and several black have told you regardless of the context and if you say it around a black person, you're still saying a racist slur. so yes if you did have respect for black ppl you wouldn't say it all! however that would mean no one would pay attention to you anymore and hurt ur precious ego

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 10w

black people*^

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 10w

I dont say it around blacks people out of respect, so you suggesting I do the opposite for attention means nothing. You can chose to be offended by the word or not, that is your right, but It doesnt mean i have no right to say it. And again, it seems the insults are one sided, that suggests your inability to have intellectual discussions.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 10w

I dont know why you believe I have some need for attention by saying the nword around blacks, I dont use it around blacks out of respect because I understand people like you find the word so apprehensive that you lose your mind over it regardless of context. I use it purely privately with my friends because the word is funny to me. You must understand that I dont get offended by the word since it means nothing to me, like any other word, and merely muttering it is not inherently racist.

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Anonymous replying to -> #15 10w

saying it period is inherently racist and yes you are doing it for attention. you very well could've seen my post and not have commented at all. you did though and proceeded to argue with the black ppl in the comments section abt how you have a "right" to say a racial slur. literally no matter the context or the situation, saying the n word is racist. i really hope that clicks for you one day. you might think ur friends r finding it "funny" but maybe they r too scared to stand up to you...

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Anonymous replying to -> pirosnake 10w

It’s not racist. Racism requires there to be systematic oppression in place to hinder an ethnicity from financial, social or otherwise growth or opportunities in society. White people might experience discrimination, but they do not experience racism bc they set that system up

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Anonymous replying to -> #15 10w

As a black person, the nuance you need to understand here is that people who colloquially use terms that previously oppressed them as a sign of camaraderie, joking or otherwise are reclaiming it. That word does not hold the same meaning when people who are not black say it. Yes, it’s possible for black people to use the word in a negative connotation, but it is our prerogative to do so because we were the ones in chains

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Anonymous replying to -> #15 10w

Yea you’re evil asf and have a wicked soul. There’s a special place in hell for ppl like you and your ancestors

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Anonymous replying to -> #15 10w

“Blacks”

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Anonymous replying to -> #15 10w

Freedom of speech ≠ freedom from consequences. You can’t yell fire in a theater

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Anonymous replying to -> pirosnake 10w

Reverse racism doesn’t exist lil bro

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Anonymous replying to -> #27 10w

The dude could have SAed a woman. Fuck you. Pussy ass bitch. Always wanting to give shit, but the moment there’s pushback y’all want to pussy out

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Anonymous replying to -> #27 10w

Not as pathetic as your bitchass

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Anonymous replying to -> #34 9w

No that’s systemic racism, regular racism is just racism

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Anonymous replying to -> #28 9w

Yeah its just regular racism.

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Anonymous replying to -> #34 9w

Racism does not have any of those qualifiers. It is the word for racial prejudice; however, due to the word having cultural significance control over that words use became important. Thus an effort began to narrow the definition of the word so that, whole keeping its importance, its would only be usable by those who were changing the word. You don’t see the same qualifiers attached with other words of less significance but similar meanings. Sexism, ableism, classism, etc.

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Anonymous replying to -> pirosnake 9w

Thats also where the “reverse racism” term comes from. It’s why there is no “reverse sexism” “reverse ableism” “reverse classism”. Because those terms weren’t needed to excuse a gap in language created by an attempt at changing the meaning of a word.

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Anonymous replying to -> pirosnake 9w

No, that’s called prejudice or discrimination. Racism, as the other commenter stated, does indeed require systemic support. For example: white supremacy in the United States had a plethora of laws codified for the explicit intention of the subjugation of non-white individuals and reinforcing that cultural norm of white supremacy. That is racism. some random person saying they don’t like white people, while living within the United States, is discrimination and prejudice.

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Anonymous replying to -> pirosnake 9w

solely because you’re, seemingly, a white supremacist who insists on the existence of “anti-white racism”, that does not mean that such racism exists within the United States. if there was a nation that systemically targeted white people ad the United States targeted not-white people, then within that country prejudice towards white people could be considered racism; but not in the vast majority of countries.

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Anonymous replying to -> #38 9w

You are using the alternative definition I mentioned before, not the common one. The practice of narrowing definitions in academic settings is common place. In this instance it comes from specific fields of sociology.

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Anonymous replying to -> pirosnake 9w

If you want another example you can look at how the word “sanitary” is used. If someone sneezes into their hands and then they don’t wash them, you and I would say that is not sanitary, but in some fields like global health it is considered sanitary. The reason for this is that the definition of “sanitary” is narrowed to only when something is free of fecal matter. Aside from that you cover it in whatever bile and bacteria you like and it will still be classified as “sanitary”.

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Anonymous replying to -> pirosnake 9w

It’s actually a fun topic to talk to your professors about (whatever class you’re in). Words that are used one way in your field that are used differently outside.

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Anonymous replying to -> pirosnake 9w

and this is when we start discussing anti-intellectualism and its harms, as you so aptly displayed. solely because you do not like the definition, does not mean you get to arbitrarily change it. there are distinctions between racism, prejudice, and discrimination for explicit reasons.

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Anonymous replying to -> pirosnake 9w

yes, that does not mean the definition of the word itself is different due to common usage, it merely shows that there are common misconceptions about the meaning of certain words. it was so kind of you to perfectly display that.

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Anonymous replying to -> #38 9w

Racism = racial prejudice, is the original definition. Prejudice + power is the altered definition as I previously stated. Bold of you to accuse someone highlighting the quirks of academia and pushing you to pursue more of being an anti-intellectual.

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Anonymous replying to -> pirosnake 9w

keywords: “original definition” yes, I am indeed accusing you of being an anti-intellectual (at best). let’s not forget how you’re also trying to parrot the white supremacist propaganda of “reverse racism”. you can’t exactly hide behind a flimsy facade of “highlighting the quirks of academia and pushing you to pursue more” when you’re actively disregarding the progress that academia has made when it’s beneficial to your ideological beliefs. essentially “shooting yourself in the foot”.

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Anonymous replying to -> #38 9w

I’m not parroting “reverse racism”. As I said before that term was created to fill the gap created by changing the definition of racism. I don’t use it, cause I don’t use the altered definition of racism. I’m also going to need an elaboration on what process I have disparaged. You mean changing definitions? Because I didn’t disparage that.

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Anonymous replying to -> pirosnake 9w

except, you do, even if you don’t openly acknowledge it. that’s exactly what this was, then you went on to explain the topic through a lens of pseudo-intellectualism (which is indeed inherently anti-intellectual) the “altered definition” is the scholarly one. as I said, you’re an anti-intellectual, who’s likely a white supremacist white just enough self-awareness to know that you can’t openly advocate for white supremacy without societal backlash, so you engage in these disingenuous tactics.

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Anonymous replying to -> #38 9w

if you’re not actually a white supremacist, then I apologize, but it’s ultimately on you for parroting the same exact lines that white supremacists use to subliminally spread their ideological beliefs. you don’t get to discredit academic progress merely because you dislike the outcome.

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Anonymous replying to -> #38 9w

Racism as defined in crt and modern sociology is not universal, and is not the original meaning: https://www.npr.org/sections/codeswitch/2014/01/05/260006815/the-ugly-fascinating-history-of-the-word-racism

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Anonymous replying to -> #38 9w

Wrong. As I explained to you before the definition of racism you are using is used in specific fields of sociology. In other fields that definition isn’t used, the common definition is. History, literature, political science all don’t use that definition. Just like how microbiology doesn’t use the definition of sanitary I mentioned.

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Anonymous replying to -> pirosnake 9w

you can keep regurgitating “wrong” as much as you’d like, you’re not winning against the allegations of anti-intellectualism. political science and history both recognize the sociological definition of racism, you’re fundamentally incorrect in that claim. like I said, the issue ultimately boils down to your refusal to accept academic progress and insistence on parroting white supremacist propaganda.

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Anonymous replying to -> #38 9w

seems like I need to repost this portion one more time.

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Anonymous replying to -> #38 9w

Ask a political science or history major if China and India are racist towards each other and get back to me. Also you are making the same mistake. You are assuming I am against changing definitions in the context of academic study.

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Anonymous replying to -> #38 9w

you are absolutely eating him up #38, but i think he either is genuinely isn't intelligent enough to understand he's wrong or won't admit he's wrong due to his own narcissism

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Anonymous replying to -> pirosnake 9w

Are you at least able to admit that the narrower definition is not the common one?

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Anonymous replying to -> pirosnake 9w

do individual students *pursuing a major* have any credibility in the consensus of the field they’re actively learning? what you should’ve said is “ask a political science or history professor”, not some dipshit student. truly, you’re not helping your case on the anti-intellectual front.

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Anonymous replying to -> #38 9w

the only thing I’m assuming is that you’re a white supremacist based off your rhetoric. you’ve repeatedly displayed your disregard for the evolution in the definition of racism, as well as your disapproval of the modern definition of said term.

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Anonymous replying to -> #38 9w

the “original definition” is not the current one, for good reason. it’s a shame that you disagree, but it’s essentially meaningless. there’s a reason why people dedicate their lives to studying these topics, and I can assure you some arrogant 20-something year old that’s actively pursuing a degree does not have a say in the topic. I’m talking about you, in case that went over your head. yes, now I also assumed your age and degree status.

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Anonymous replying to -> pirosnake 9w

Dude just stop you have serious issues. I’ve seen you hating on other races in other subs but I didn’t know you took it a step further and started coming in here being racist as well.

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Anonymous replying to -> #38 9w

Would have been a good insult, except I already pushed you to pursue this discussion with your professors and you ignored it.

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Anonymous replying to -> pirosnake 9w

I’ve already discussed that topic, common use vs definition. all that implies is a shared misconception on the term itself, which heavily aligns with the poor state of the U.S. public education system (specifically focusing on the United States). all you’re highlighting is how common ignorance is in this topic, which is true.

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Anonymous replying to -> #31 9w

This is the only sub I’m in.

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Anonymous replying to -> pirosnake 9w

Well this and DND sometimes.

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Anonymous replying to -> #38 9w

Its still the current common definition. #2 provided you with a source on it and you ignored them.

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Anonymous replying to -> pirosnake 9w

as I stated, repeatedly, a common use does not override the original definition, it merely indicates the common understanding or usage of a word. definitions can change to adapt to common use, but it is not inherent. most people are unaware of the academic progress in the definition of racism, as they’re woefully uneducated on said topic.

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Anonymous replying to -> #38 9w

HOLD UP. Did you just claim a commonly held definition of a word is incorrect? Thats not how language works. Words are tools to convey meaning. If people commonly change how a word is used its definition changes with it. Like the world “insanity.” Much like you reposting the same already addressed claim over again and expecting a different result. And I’ll leave things there.

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Anonymous replying to -> #38 9w

so, *once again*, that is a spotlight on a lack of knowledge. the insistence that said ignorance is somehow indicative of a more valid definition is inherently anti-intellectual. your ignorance is your problem, the world does not have to coddle you.

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Anonymous replying to -> pirosnake 9w

there is a reason why multiple people are calling you racist. I recommend you take a minute, step back from this conversation, and seriously take their remarks into consideration. unless of course, you don’t give a fuck about being called racist because you genuinely are a white supremacist…

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Anonymous replying to -> pirosnake 9w

as I *just stated*, definitions *CAN* change with common use, but it does not inherently and automatically change. you’re essentially advocating that people’s overwhelming ignorance on the topic of racism is justification for disregarding the modern definition in favor for the original one. looks like we need to repost this section once AGAIN

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 9w

🫶🫶 I appreciate you, yeah idk wtf is going on with them. I can’t tell if it’s white supremacy or genuine unfettered stupidity either way, sheesh.

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Anonymous replying to -> #34 9w

Bro just crawled out of 2011 Tumblr

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Anonymous replying to -> pirosnake 9w

You can’t reason with them man. You’ve tried to get them off the train tracks but they don’t listen. Just let it come.

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Anonymous replying to -> #41 9w

the cognitive dissonance is genuinely astounding. good luck with that.

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Anonymous replying to -> #38 9w

like how you said nothing of value

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Anonymous replying to -> #41 9w

oh poor baby, was it too much for you to read?

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Anonymous replying to -> #38 9w

Oh I read. I just think that you call people cognitively dissonant when you don’t understand people’s perspectives. It looked almost like you were both arguing past each other, rather than with another.

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Anonymous replying to -> #41 9w

it seems like you don’t understand the definition of that term, and how it relates to your initial “train tracks” comment. it might be a shocking thing for someone like you to hear, but not all perspectives are worth considering. for example: the perspective of a white supremacist or one of a neonazi are both utterly worthless and, indeed, do not deserve to be considered in the slightest.

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Anonymous replying to -> #38 9w

This might be a shock to you, but the instinct to label things is not coming from anywhere good but from a place of fear and indoctrination. That is the very same way that McCarthyism gained power; because the label, regardless of whether or not it is valid or appropriate or even true, became the determinant for truth and respect. There are better mentalities.

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Anonymous replying to -> #41 9w

what an odd whataboutism that was. since you seemingly need a refresher on the conversation: I never labeled you as anything, I criticized your cognitive dissonance as you jumped to support the other commenter who was parroting the “racism against whites” bullshit, while they attempted to discredit academic progress in favor of racism’s “original definition”. i recommend that you redirect some of that energy in maintaining your preconceived biases towards furthering your educational journey.

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Anonymous replying to -> #41 9w

unless, of course, you independently identified with either label of “white supremacist” or “neonazi” after I cited those ideologies within my previous reply as examples of perspectives that do not deserve considering. I’ll let you decide: did you shift to a whataboutism, or did you identify with one of those terms?

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Anonymous replying to -> #38 9w

It’s not a whataboutism you dolt, it’s a logical analogy, because you label things fascist so that you can declare they’re not worth understanding and dismiss them, the same way people labeled shit communist so they could write it off without trying to understand it

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Anonymous replying to -> #38 9w

The same way you made an analogy that his perspective isn’t worth trying to understand, the same way a neonazi’s isn’t worth trying to understand

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Anonymous replying to -> #38 9w

So either you made a whataboutism and he replied with one, or else you didn’t and neither did he. Which one is it?

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Anonymous replying to -> #39 9w

Did you somehow miss the words “for example”? to make an example, and to change the topic, are not the same thing. why do I need to explain this simple difference to you? it is not my fault that you fail to recognize fascism when it is presented to you, and furthermore advocate in favor of it. you truly thought you did something, didn’t you?

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Anonymous replying to -> #38 9w

He wasn’t changing the topic though. He made a comparison. Now fuck off commie

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 9w

Slavery is actually still happening y’all we’ve gotta decolonize that myth. The 13th amendment which “abolished” slavery left a loophole called the exception clause: “except as a punishment for crime” which motivated the creation of Black codes and vagrancy laws to criminalize blackness. This is what became the industrial prison complex, and generates over $10 billion in yearly economic output today.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 9w

We incarcerate more people per capita than any other country in the world at almost 2 million incarcerated. Prison laborers are forced to work without basic worker protections such as minimum wage and workplace safety. This is largely considered a humanitarian crisis.

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