Anonymous #1 5d

What hairstyles/colors do guys find attractive

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Anonymous OP 5d

I don’t think there is any that is specific

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Anonymous #4 5d

I just don’t feel pretty at all compared to them. There’s girls online I see and I just don’t know how a guy could ever find me pretty when they exist

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Anonymous OP 5d

I was dating one for awhile, and she wasn’t always that pretty. There’s a bunch of tricks readily available to edit everything you see on the internet. You can have flaws, especially physical ones, there aren’t too many things guys aren’t willing to overlook if you’ve got a genuinely good heart. I like the gym because it says something about someone. People do cheat with drugs and all sorts of other nonsense, but a body that’s fit can’t really be bought, or stolen, or bargained for. And 1/2

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Anonymous #4 5d

2/2 every day you, I, or anyone else spends in the gym, no matter what they are doing, if they are spending genuine effort in there, they leave a tiny bit more attractive. There’s not much you can do in the gym that’s not productive somehow. It’s a really positive place.

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Anonymous #3 5d

No fr lol

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Anonymous OP 5d

Also OP, please don’t base your sense of self worth solely on how attractive you think you are to men, we are all made in the image of God, so your value in this world isn’t based on how much people would lust after you. Pretty people rarely have a realistic view of the world because people are constantly trying to fuck them. They tend to be really warped mentally. It’s when you seemingly have nothing to offer that people show you who they really are.

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Anonymous #5 5d

There’s so many 10/10 girls who also have great personalities though :( I could never compare

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Anonymous #4 5d

I fear a lot of the things I’m insecure about the gym won’t be able to fix

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Anonymous OP 5d

There’s no need to compare. Every guy is unique, just as every girl is unique. What matters is that you’re authentic to yourself (but don’t limit yourself at the same time to new things). What one person may find attractive, another may not. I feel you cause I relate to your issue a lot, I have a lot of things that I’m insecure about, but I try not to think about it cause I believe someone out there will be ok with those things and accept me for who I am.

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Anonymous #5 5d

It's hard not to compare like even at my best I know I'll never look like this. It just makes me see how many different plastic surgeries I need to get to even look similar to this

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Anonymous OP 5d

So don’t compare… also that girl has on some thick make up, hair treatments, no shade to be thrown on her but, there’s something to be said for a girl who’s hair looks “healthy” no matter which color/length/curl she has naturally. That always puzzled me… why girls would treat their hair, make it look less healthy, and healthy hair looked better than anything treated.

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Anonymous #4 5d

Yeah lol and I wear makeup too and do treatments in my own hair… I don’t look like that

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Anonymous OP 5d

And please don’t get surgery… unless it’s for something like a disfigurement which, again, is still easily overlooked by most guys. I myself have very distinct asymmetrical features in my face, but I worked on my body/personality enough that most girls don’t seem to care.

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Anonymous #4 5d

My nose is too big and that’s something guys have repeatedly made known they don’t find attractive. Even if I went to the gym and got the perfect body id still be a “butterface”

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Anonymous OP 5d

I’ve literally posted here about loving big nosed women but yk u just need to get offline imo it’s clearly not helping you

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Anonymous #1 5d

I’ve repeatedly saw guys saying how big noses makes girls ugly :(

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Anonymous OP 5d

Ok everyone is different so maybe u need to get good friends irl and not be online too much. Idk Man U just need to get some self worth, respectfully

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Anonymous OP 5d

She doesn’t even look that pretty to me 😴 she gives me more vibes that she’s annoying than anything

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Anonymous #1 5d

I agree with #1

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Anonymous OP 5d

Guys your age (I’m a grad student) aren’t terribly wise about choosing girlfriends/future wives. I’ve found it’s way wiser to pursue girls, long term, who would normally be considered “butterfaces” with great bodies. Men want to feel appreciated more than we wish to be understood, and girls of that type tend to appreciate me more.

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Anonymous #5 5d

If she’s not pretty then there’s no hope for me lol

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Anonymous #3 5d

Ehhh. I’m in shape and get told I’m attractive but had my ego crushed in college because the frat guys are so mean and literally rate me to my face so

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Anonymous #6 5d

I’d cry omg. I’m so sorry that happened

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Anonymous OP 5d

If it makes you feel better I don’t think the girl in that pic is pretty! Beauty is subjective I’m certain you’re very pretty without comparing yourself

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Anonymous OP 4d

She genuinely looks average, I wish you could see that!

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Anonymous #2 4d

If she’s average looking though like I’m so ugly lmao

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