
Hi! Second year medical student here, he’s 100% being legit it’s tough out here. Unless you’re already in a relationship when he starts school or you are another medical student, it is extremely hard to give another party the time and attention they deserve and even if they say they’re okay with it, at least subconsciously the non medical partner will be upset that they arent being given enough time. Trust me
I’m a law student and I try to date but some weeks it’s simply impossible. If someone expected me to hang out multiple times a week I don’t think I could do that, but a lot of people do need more than a once a week hangout to connect w someone. For that reason, I kinda just gave up for the time being. Dating just became another stressor. I could see medical school being the same situation or worse than mine.