Anonymous #9 4w

*my

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Anonymous #5 4w

You have to remember a good amount of the people on here are either involuntarily celibate so of course some will shame you

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Anonymous #5 4w

Downvoted by incels probably

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Anonymous #4 4w

it really isn’t

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Anonymous #6 4w

Yep

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Anonymous #9 4w

Regardless of gender yes it is 😂. 13 bodies already by 21 is crazy. I’m not trying to shame her but it definitely will raise judgement and remove some future prospects if they come to know about this. This is coming from another female the same age as well.

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Anonymous #4 4w

I’m saying as a 22yr old 13 bodies by 21 isn’t crazy at all.

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Anonymous #4 4w

i want you to spell it out for me like i’m 5 as to what is so wrong about having 13 bodies? what do you think it says about some

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Anonymous #9 4w

If you are at least somewhat attractive you will have a lot of prospects. In my opinion most men are easy and the hardest part is vetting them out based on what you want. This is the age where you should live for yourself and do what you want. Sleep with who you want as long as you are safe and careful about it. Body count will not natter unless it changes the way someone treats you. Some people use sex as a means of self harm and view people as a commodity. Triple digits is a bit much imo

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Anonymous #9 4w

Having higher body count generally shows how much respect and value you have for yourself (or perhaps in this case the lack of it). Whether it be a male or female. No I’m not slut shaming and I will never put unfair biases or believe one gender is superior than the other. That’s my personal belief. If u tryna argue/ debate - please continue to do so w other ppl in the comments cuz currently I don’t have time rn to lose brain cells and patience. 🥰

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Anonymous #4 4w

So you are slut shaming

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Anonymous #7 4w

no literally, “i’m not slut shaming but you have no self respect” like what😭😭

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Anonymous #9 4w

Absolutely! Saying you are a female to justify it is also pick me behavior

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Anonymous #5 4w

😂😂😂

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Anonymous #9 4w

It seems obvious to me that slut shaming is moral scolding that you typically see from people espousing certain gender norms whereas what she is saying is just about what you should take from someone’s life experiences when you meet them/what it might imply about them. If someone said they cheated in the past or never had a relationship before, that gives you a sense about them. So does a high body count. Tells you about how they bond, how impulsive they are, & how they value themselves

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Anonymous #12 4w

Except it doesn’t. Body count doesn’t espouse the reason why they had sex, how they felt about the sex they had, or their history with intimacy and sex. All body count tells you is that they had sex with a number of people. It doesn’t tell you anything about how they view themselves, how impulsive they are, who their partners were or how they bond.

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Anonymous #7 4w

Mmmm yeah except it does. “Espouse” is also not the word you’re looking for there 😬Of course ALONE it doesn’t tell a full story but it is a matter of FACT. The fact is then what demands explanation in the form of your thoughts, feelings, and narrative. There is only so much you can explain given a set of facts (age, body count, relationships, etc.) Who you are is based on and must return to the facts of your life, regardless of if it is more complicated.

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Anonymous #12 4w

lol you’re so right. I mean encompass 😁. And the FACT is that you’re being a slut shaming asshole who can’t see past a persons sexual history. And that’s on you. That’s your burden to bear. Just don’t make it someone else’s business

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Anonymous #7 4w

Hey guys, may be a dumb question but this is blowing up my phone, how do I mute notifications 😭

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Anonymous #13 4w

Turn off the green bell

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Anonymous #7 4w

Ty

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