Anonymous #1 14h

I’m just so.. sad I guess. I come to this community occasionally and I guess I didn’t expect to be treated this hostile over what seems like such a simple ask. I tried to be respectful in all of my dialog with all of them, even if I’m unmoving on my opinion I’m still interested in hearing perspectives and everyone was SO degrading. It’s like they felt the need to do EXACTLY what I was asking about as meanly as possible. It’s just. Discouraging. None of the men in my life use the term it’s so

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Anonymous OP 14h

Weird to me it’s this hotly debated elsewhere

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Anonymous #3 11h

I disliked aqua too so this shit stings man. She used to call me a pick me and back like last summer when I came here more often bc I used to fuck with some of the guys here. I feel like this community has gotten meaner

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Anonymous #3 11h

I thought it had been a very long time since she had posted tho

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Anonymous OP 9h

It definitely has gotten worse, I barely feel like I can relate to anything most of the guys on here respond with now

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Anonymous #4 9h

It’s kinda sad :/ I like talking to guys! I really do. And I’m genuinely not here to police everyone. But I can’t rly take the advice and answers of people here seriously if I know a lot of the participants don’t care about sexism or are even sexist themselves. Like if complaining about men calling me and other women bitches is enough to get me called every derogatory name in the book and told to kill myself what am I even doing here. I don’t wanna ask less serious questions to guys like that

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Anonymous strawberry_hair 8h

i'm sorry to hear that strawberry. from my interactions with you you've always been super reasonable and willing to discuss

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Anonymous strawberry_hair 8h

Really? You’re always so nice to everyone I’m shocked. What did they say if you wanna share?

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Anonymous seeya_space_cowboy 8h

Oh hi cowboy. I didn’t realize you were still active here. You’re always cool. Idk what was up with 7. Tbf to the guys they at least claimed to be a girl so not one of the community dudes. I think she just blocked me which good riddance. I hit a nerve with her for some reason ig

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Anonymous OP 7h

hey lol yeah im back 😂 and yeah that shit was odd. "claimed" is a key word there im not sure why a girl would be that pissy about wanting to be called that word😭

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Anonymous seeya_space_cowboy 6h

I appreciate it. I really do try and discuss things like the adults we are- but there’s a reason I haven’t been posting as much on here or commenting when I feel I could give assistance

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Anonymous OP 6h

Well I’ve gotten a lot of different things. Some from ask women and some from here. But in DMs it gets…. Well it’s gotten violent threats let’s say. Attacks on me, my character, my religion, my gender, my sexuality- nothing is safe. Of course I’ve gotten threats of rape and told I should stop engaging with people because I’m a woman. You know, the usual lol

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Anonymous strawberry_hair 6h

i haven't really been on for a while so i have no idea what its been like but i should be back now so i'll try to give you some good discussions again🙂‍↕️

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