Ask Men on Sidechat | I give him so much reassurance but he still doesn’t trust me. He said that I am too friendly and know too many people. He said that people ask him if “that’s your girl?!” And then make comments at my body.. How is any of it my fault? How can he trust me?

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I give him so much reassurance but he still doesn’t trust me. He said that I am too friendly and know too many people. He said that people ask him if “that’s your girl?!” And then make comments at my body.. How is any of it my fault? How can he trust me?

Anonymous 1d

That’s not your fault, this is obviously just textbook insecurity.

Anonymous 1d

Tell him to quit acting like an insecure bitch

Anonymous 21h

You can’t give someone security

Anonymous 18h

If you genuinely aren't flirting with anyone else and are respectful of your relationship then this is all on him. The baddie tax is having other guys be interested in ur girl even if she's not flirting back. But you also need to be honest with yourself. Are you 100% not flirting etc? If so then he needs to stop being insecure or date uglier

Anonymous

#1 1d

Yup.

Anonymous

#1 1d

It’s definitely not your fault and might not be completely his fault either. We live in a fucked up world.

Anonymous

#1 1d

But it’s DEFINITELY not your fault.

Anonymous

#1 1d

But how do I give that security? or is there no way of me providing it..?

Anonymous

OP 1d

You already reassure him and do the best you can. thats all you can do tbh. In this context, it’s not a you problem, it’s a him problem. Can’t fix anyone and it’s not your fault.

Anonymous

#4 1d

Exactly

Anonymous

#4 1d

But I really like him, and everything is good with us except this thing. I feel at fault because he’s saying I have too many guy friends but I really don’t, maybe 4-5? But they aren’t ones I hang out with outside of saying hi on campus.

Anonymous

#4 1d

He also didn’t tell me that the dudes disrespected my body. So later in the night they said hi to me and I said “Do I know you?” and they were fucking with me I guess? But I didn’t know and he was like “You just say hi to people that disrespect you.” How would I know.. You just protected me from hearing it, all you said was they asked if I was your girl.

Anonymous

#6 18h

I’m 100% not flirting. I tell people straight out that i’m talking to someone. “What’s your type? the dude i’m talking to”

Anonymous

OP 18h

Then tell him to get it together or pack it up