Anonymous #2 3w

I mean can’t u still have kids with someone who’s ace tho? like💀

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Anonymous #3 3w

They want biological kids. They dont wanna adopt.

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Anonymous OP 3w

I know lol. have people never heard of in vitro?

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Anonymous #3 3w

A lot of people want the natural experience. They find surrogacy and test tube babies as invalid

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Anonymous OP 3w

Hey so its okay to not date ace girls! Date girls who actually want sex! Hope this helps!

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Anonymous #3 3w

I’m not paying money to get my wife pregnant

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Anonymous OP 3w

I don’t wanna pay money to get my wife pregnant

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Anonymous #2 3w

so if your wife wasn’t asexual, but had issues and complications in general, but both of you still really wanted a family. what about then?

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Anonymous #3 3w

If we’re struggling to have kids naturally then we’ll look into alternative ways to have some but only if we’re struggling to make some

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Anonymous #3 3w

Spending money to get pregnant is dumb as fuck no matter the context. Spend that money on adopting and giving an already living child a good life. You’re not entitled to biological children

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Anonymous #4 3w

Adoption is expensive af too tbh

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Anonymous OP 3w

Yes. So if you’re spending all that money anyway then give a kid that’s already alive a good life. Not everyone deserves to be a parent. If you WANT to be a parent you should be able to give any child a happy life, not just a child with your genes

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Anonymous OP 3w

Yeah but at least it guarantees a child unlike the other options

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Anonymous #4 3w

Oh I promise im all for adoption. I dont want kids at all though so I haven't really researched all the options. But I do agree that biological children aren't necessary to be a parent

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Anonymous #2 3w

No it doesn’t 💀

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Anonymous #4 3w

Nah it definitely do might jus take some time

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Anonymous #6 3w

Im that girl..

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Anonymous #6 3w

And you dont have to date an ace girl anyways. Nobody's forcing you

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Anonymous OP 3w

Genuinely whats even the reason for dating then just be someone’s friend at that point

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Anonymous #6 3w

because people still love each other??? dude sex is not the most important part of a relationship

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Anonymous #6 3w

You do know there’s more to a relationship than getting your rocks off right?

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Anonymous #6 3w

I like the romantic part of dating. Not the sexual. I like being with someone and going on cute dates and baking and cooking together and I do like cuddling and kissing. Some people only have sex, and some dont have it at all

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Anonymous OP 3w

right and not to mention that there are plenty of relationships where people don’t have sex at all and they’re completely happy

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Anonymous OP 3w

You don’t need to be dating someone to do any of that stuff. Just seems like a waste of a man’s time and resources. Sex is a part of a healthy relationship might be fine short term long term I don’t imagine there isn’t infidelity issues. I think you would find most men will go find whatever they are lacking in a relationship somewhere else

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Anonymous #6 3w

I personally wouldn’t waste a portion of my life with a women who doesn’t have any interest in sex that would make me feel unloved, and all my friends would clown me for it aswell. You asked for a man’s input I gave you one do with that information what you will

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Anonymous #6 3w

No one wants to be the cuck friend lol

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Anonymous #6 3w

Except you’re wrong most men don’t need sex we want to be with people for their mind and soul sex isn’t apart of a healthy relationship if i didn’t want kids I would date and probably marry someone who’s asexual

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Anonymous #2 3w

you sound like a incel or a hippie bro or a women masquerading as a man

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Anonymous #6 3w

I dont know why I have to keep repeating this. Nobody's forcing you to date ace girls. Its your preference that you need sex. Its mine that I dont. Theres people for the both of us. Not every relationship needs sex to work. And justifying cheating is weird

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Anonymous OP 3w

You must live in some fantasy land but we can agree to disagree, I also don’t know why you keep reiterating “you don’t have to date ace girls “ I think anyone on this thread has seen you post that a million times when you don’t get the answer you want. Don’t ask a question on the internet if you don’t want an answer.

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Anonymous #6 3w

I say it when people say weird ass shit. Some have been respectful and some have stated sex doesnt matter to them. I've had a ton of dms too. The point of my post was to see how many men actually care about sex. And rn its a mix

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Anonymous OP 3w

Should should put a poll in this community then that would give you a better idea

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Anonymous #6 3w

Also i have only said it twice in this thread and both times to you. So idk what youre even talking about

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Anonymous #6 3w

I did lowkey forget about posts. But I like explanations better and some only answer the polls and dont comment

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Anonymous OP 3w

Polls*

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Anonymous #6 3w

I mean im not ace and im still here to tell u that u dont need to date someone who’s asexual if thats your preference. but validating cheating because of that is shitty of u. u can’t force someone who’s uninterested in sex to want it, you like sex in your relationship, so therefore you really would not be compatible with someone who’s ace. don’t make this a justification for cheating or say that someone’s needs automatically wouldn’t be met, if they are someone’s partner they’re clearly happy

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Anonymous #3 3w

This ^^^ Also im always transparent that I never want sex. Ik that its super important to some people and wouldn't want to hold them back from finding someone else

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Anonymous OP 3w

I do wanna say I also dont want kids, and this is the same thing. You tell the person you dont want kids. And they decide if its a deciding factor or not

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Anonymous #6 3w

Except I’m none of those I’m a man who doesn’t give into the temptation of the flesh

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