Ask Men on Sidechat | Update: He just confessed that he actually spent the night at her place, but never told me because he was scared of how I would react… he is my ex now, but am I valid?

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Update: He just confessed that he actually spent the night at her place, but never told me because he was scared of how I would react… he is my ex now, but am I valid?

Am I valid for being insecure if my boyfriend asked his girl best friend to watch the fireworks with him while I was out of town? Just her, not a friend group, and it was over New Years.

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Anonymous 9w

Totally. Yes.

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Anonymous 9w

So he deliberately didn’t tell you information instead of having an adult conversation? You are absolutely valid. If he cared about you and knew you were worried he should try and reassure you. Lying doesn’t help

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Anonymous 9w

Only spent night or had something?

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