I don’t think so If you’re worried that he only texts late at night, maybe ask what hours he works, Maybe he’s texting you right after he’s off, or texting right after the gym

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4am sounds like shift work or when he’s away from a partner, guys can be emotional in sex that doesn’t mean it’s more then a hookup, it’s our actions not our words that tell you where we are with you

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No, I’m on the other side of this situation with a girl and I do have feelings

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Yes you are, in the nicest way possible be real with yourself. Why would he text you once a day, late at night if he was serious about you and wanted anything past a hookup

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Yes

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