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I haven’t gotten a like on hinge in months. I know a lot of women get at least one a week. Am I doing something wrong? What are some things that make you immediately X/swipe left on an account?
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Anonymous 12w

Might be time to change up the photos if you can. Maybe ask a friend to help you take a few new ones. Answering new prompts might help too, especially if the ones you have now aren’t very unique or interesting.

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Anonymous 12w

I do not use dating apps but I know many girls promos kinda suck and don’t give room for ppl to respond to it

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Anonymous 12w

You’re just ugly.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 12w

What are some good ideas for photos? I try to avoid group ones

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 12w

Pics in places with an interesting background (even as simple as being outside at the park or in front of some artwork), maybe a silly Halloween costume photo since it’s October, doesn’t have to be crazy

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 12w

Would my SpongeBob costume from last Halloween work? 🥹 I try to put my best looking photos that are <1 year old

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 12w

Yeah that should be fine, it’s still recent

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 12w

Okay, thanks!

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 12w

One of my prompts is about my love of languages, another about the specific videos I watch on YouTube, and another about how much skiing frustrates me. Are those good for conversation starters? Should I add something else instead?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 12w

Honestly they seem good! I don’t have much else advice unfortunately i just know that hinge is awful from what my friends (male and female) say

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 12w

My real advice is honestly if dating apps don’t work for you, that doesn’t mean you are bad at all, some people just don’t showcase well (me I showcase awfully on dating apps) and sometimes it may be best to delete it and try to either meet ppl irl or know at this time in your life you are ok not feeling the need to match with someone constantly. Because the dopamine addiction from these apps are real lol

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 12w

Understood, thanks anyway ❤️

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 12w

I’ve tried to find people irl but it’s hard because I’m busy and don’t like bars 😂

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 12w

Thats so real i don’t drink either 😭😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 12w

Perhaps why I am chronically single LOL but it’s just not for me. If you are in school try campus events and clue to just keep broadening your network of acquaintances and see if anything sticks as friends or more

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 12w

Yeah, I’ll try 🤔 thank you LOL

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 12w

Tough but could be true

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