
i was quiet and shy as hell my entire life. in college i developed my social skills and put myself out there despite it being extremely uncomfortable for me. since then i became much more confident, got laid a fair amount in college and now am in a committed relationship. really what you need is social skills, a good attitude, and to maintain your appearance (hygiene, grooming, style, etc). i believe that anyone can achieve all those things if they put in the effort and are willing to change