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Ask Men 23w
Stop why is every man I encounter trying to fcukkkkkkk I want a relationship!
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Anonymous 23w

Welcome to modern day datingšŸ‘šŸ»

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Anonymous 23w

Youā€™re talking to the wrong guys

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Anonymous 23w

Perhaps pursue people instead of waiting to be pursued, if thatā€™s what you do

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Anonymous 23w

Never have sex before the relationship properly brings and he really invest into it

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Anonymous 23w

Then get one

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Anonymous 23w

Because men donā€™t consider sex and relationships to be mutually exclusive. In fact, Iā€™ve even heard scattered accounts of men fucking women theyā€™re in relationships WITH!

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Anonymous 23w

we live in hell, it stinks rn but you CAN make it to a heathy long term relationship with persistence

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 23w

Most college aged men want relationships itā€™s just a lot of us go under the radar

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 23w

Heā€™s not in collegeā€¦

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 23w

I pursue people

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 23w

Great! Then u are on the right track, dating sucks men and women are flaky and most want casual. Just gotta keep going

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Anonymous replying to -> stanczyk 23w

So I should fuck him?

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Anonymous replying to -> stanczyk 23w

He said he may turn it into a relationship

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 23w

Maybe the worst thing u can do tbh

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 23w

No

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Anonymous replying to -> stanczyk 23w

So I just stopped talking to him?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 23w

all the non-college guys iā€™ve talked to are the ones that just want to fuck lol

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 23w

Ew why are you under every post telling women to chase after men just bc you wonā€™t want to

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 23w

Huh? I ask women out I am interested in, the advice goes to all genders, also asking someone out/pursuing isnā€™t chasing lol

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 23w

I want

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 23w

I keep running into guys who only want sex

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 23w

Itā€™s literally that easy just ask a single guy

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 23w

Iā€™m telling you then only want sex

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 23w

Yeah the 4 frat guys you talked to are probably not gonna be interested in anything other than sex, Iā€™d recommend broadening your horizons a little

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 23w

They arenā€™t in school you dumbass

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 23w

And I havenā€™t asked frat boys

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