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So genuine question. Why do people care so much about body counts?

Anonymous 1d

it can tell you a lot about a person. context matters for sure but just by looking at numbers a 20 yr old with 2 bodies definitely considers sex to be something more meaningful than a 20 yr old with 30 bodies

Anonymous 1d

STDs

Anonymous 1d

purity culture and lack of sex education. there’s a misconception that women’s’ vaginas wear out and get looser after sex, which is objectively false. the only time a vagina can feel “loose” is shortly after childbirth. there’s also this weird insecurity of “what if i’m not as good as the others she’s had?”

Anonymous 1d

i can only offer the dumb guy perspective but it literally means nothing to me, just shows pretty much how high you value the act, higher bodies normally mean a relationship isn’t or like that important to you when you fuck someone or atleast that’s what some psychological stuff says idk but why guys care so much about it is another thing in and of itself

Anonymous 21h

Because it matters. Fight me

Anonymous 10h

I’ve never understood this question. Some people do for religious, personal or other reasons. It doesn’t affect you or anyone else if said person wants someone with a lower body count.

Anonymous 1d

Some men think that women’s vaginas are less “worn out” from people with lower body counts, but that’s a load of nonsense.

Anonymous 1d

Like STDs also that see body count doesn’t matter if it’s like done with a long term partner or someone you loved. Not like 20 year olds having 36 bodies, this girl I really liked told me that.

Anonymous 21h

I have a huge body count from when I was younger but in the last few years I’ve become a different person and I don’t do that anymore. Will you judge me the same?

Anonymous 21h

Is this a joke

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Anonymous

#1 1d

There are 20 year olds with 30 bodies?!

Anonymous

OP 1d

yes unfortunately

Anonymous

#1 1d

Is 4 normal?

Anonymous

#1 1d

I really just don’t know anything about body counts

Anonymous

OP 1d

how old are you

Anonymous

#1 1d

22!

Anonymous

OP 1d

everyone has different opinions on it but to me yeah that’s normal

Anonymous

#1 1d

Actually it’s 5, but yeah. It’s not like I hook up with people at parties or anything. Just my gf, two exes, a girl from one date that didn’t go anywhere, aaaand my friend

Anonymous

OP 1d

if you were someone i was considering dating the last two would definitely worry me but it’s not like a dealbreaker. lmk if im giving an unsolicited unwelcomed opinion lol but since you’re worried about how your body count might look to your gf or other people i just want to mention that i would find it very weird if you were still in contact with that friend. if your girlfriend doesn’t care it’s whatever but most people would

Anonymous

OP 1d

5 is still a pretty normal number btw

Anonymous

#1 1d

Oh no I’m not worried or anything, more like genuine curiosity. Also my girlfriend knows about me and my 7 evil exes. And with that one friend, she also knows and is fine with the two of us fucking around and being freaky with each other. Because we both know we’re just friends and it ain’t that deep. Besties can make out LOL

Anonymous

OP 1d

im assuming this is sarcasm lol but believe it or not a lot of people keep inappropriate people around even when they have a gf

Anonymous

#1 1d

That’s not sarcasm

Anonymous

OP 1d

im just gonna assume you’re still joking

Anonymous

#1 1d

About what, the making out with your friends thing?

Anonymous

OP 23h

tag urself 😎

Anonymous

#3 21h

Why is this getting downvoted

Anonymous

#2 21h

Why is this getting downvoted

Anonymous

#7 21h

wdym

Anonymous

#10 21h

Yeah that stain will never go away

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Anonymous

#9 19h

Because it’s not the reason most people who care about body counts care about body counts

Anonymous

#12 19h

It’s the reason pushed on them by people who are offended that they care

Anonymous

#12 18h

why do you or people you know care about body counts then?

Anonymous

#8 18h

why?

Anonymous

#3 9h

More like western culture is attempting to change the mindset of people. This is only the “norm” since the 60s and more people than you think actually care about it.

Anonymous

#14 8h

right, but i’m genuinely asking why this is the norm. even if i don’t believe it personally, i genuinely want to know because from my standpoint, it doesn’t seem logical at all. STDs can be treated, genitals unchanged, and i’m not insecure about performance, so i really don’t get why it matters so much and i want to know