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Is it common for men to talk shit about women they have been with? And do their friends believe that their guy friend isn’t the problem?

Anonymous 4w

Not a guy, but commenting cause I wanna know too. Personally I’ve overheard my guy friends do this. One guy would ask girls who said they liked him to “tell him the story” get her to write some long paragraph about how she fell for him and then laugh about it and read it to our friends. Another guy friend who I liked but rejected me - asked me to a dance as his friend- was messaging another girl most of the time and showing our other guy friends.

Anonymous 4w

I’ve never done it and I don’t do hookups but I’ve seen guys in classes say some stuff about girls they were sleeping with and sharing nude pics of them to their friends

Anonymous 4w

Anecdotally I’ve only heard women do this

Anonymous 4w

I do — only if they're actually shitty. I've dated 5 women, and I only shit talk the one that treated me really poorly.

Anonymous 4w

Yes

Anonymous

#2 4w

that same dude also was getting encouraged by his other friends (dudes I didn’t know) to cheat on his gf with me (much later, i didn’t like him when he had a gf) I don’t talk to any of these guys anymore lol.

Anonymous

#3 4w

See like personally I have said how it is. If a man was a dick and did immature shit, I say what he did. I don’t lie and add anything though to make him seem worse than he is. This is more the point I’m getting at tho cus it seems to me like from talking to other women that men will make up shit to make the women seem crazy when they r the ones who r actually the problem. This is just my experience tho so was wondering from men perspective if they hear men do this or if it’s not that common

Anonymous

#2 4w

To add, that same dude also made out with me, bought me gifts/tickets, sent me long paragraphs about how beautiful he thinks I am, told me he doesn’t get intimate with women unless he has feelings, he’d slow dance with me in the dorm, and wouldn’t keep his hands off me— then told all our guy friends that he has no idea why I think he likes me and essentially that I’m lying and crazy.