Anonymous #1 9w

even if it was a hookup and you knew you were robbing her the opportunity of her having her first sexual experience with someone who actually cared about her and intended to commit to her

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Anonymous OP 9w

Why? She wants it so I cracked 🤷🏻‍♂️ I usually don’t ghost after so that’s when I find out it was their first time.

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Anonymous OP 8w

I just don’t do hookups, period. That said, this logic is still crap. If *she is choosing* to have her first sexual experience with some random hookup she met at a party, then clearly she doesn’t care about saving that experience for someone special. No guy is robbing her of anything, she is throwing it away, and that’s entirely on her. If she doesn’t care, why do you?

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Anonymous #3 8w

cus she might later regret it

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Anonymous #3 8w

especially if she’s drunk that’s just a no go in general

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Anonymous OP 8w

It’s not anyone else’s job to police your pre-grets, except maybe your parents. If you’re expecting the random strangers at parties to be your parents and stop you from doing dumb shit that you’re actively trying to do, then you are delusional. Like I said, I don’t do hookups, period, never have. I’m engaged, and my fiancé and I both chose to wait until marriage. If you want that, then make good decisions too.

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Anonymous #3 8w

i don’t want that at all lmao, i enjoy hookups. i’m just saying personally i wouldn’t do a hookup with someone under those circumstances and think it’s kinda scummy when people do. just seems like they’re prioritizing their pleasure over someone who may be in a more vulnerable position

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Anonymous OP 8w

I mean I don’t do it either, because I don’t want to. But why are you treating grown women like they’re children who can’t be responsible for making their own decisions or accountable for their own mistakes? Do you not see how infantilizing it is to say it’s everyone else’s fault for letting them do something they might regret?

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