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Why is it so hard for some guys to put in effort to text first and post the girl your dating? This man is always on his phone when hes with me but when he isnt and i text it takes hours
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Anonymous 8w

What’s the benefit of posting

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Anonymous 8w

i be getting ghosted bro 🥹

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Anonymous 7w

Why post the girl you’re dating? If I was doing that there would be more photos of you than me on my socials.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 8w

To try and get advice from the guys perspectives what😭

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 8w

So posting your girl to get to talk to other guys?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 8w

I don’t exactly want to talk to a guy in the general sense im just tryna understand the point of view

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 8w

That’s what I was trying to get at, most guys don’t see a reason to post their girl which is why I asked for a benefit

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 8w

Ohhhh i definitely misunderstood then sorry😭 but its just being loved loudly and proudly yk

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 8w

That can be done without letting the world know, our friends knowing is enough really

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 8w

His friends didnt even know he was dating anyone until a year after we were dating and only knew because i went somewhere with him, thats another part of it probably is i would like to be loved in a loud way and he doesnt do that even after weve talked about it

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 8w

Hmm I may need more details but I have a suspicion as to why

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 8w

Girl dont say that my heart has now stopped dm me.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 7w

A story post is all ive ever asked for from him and wanted, it lasts 24hrs and doesnt have to stay on your feed. The point to it is to show off the person you love and be proud to be with them imo

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 7w

Oh, yeah that’s not too bad. I probably wouldn’t post a bunch because I suck at taking photos, but that’s more manageable.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 7w

Of course and i dont wanna post every day or every week but on e and a while it is a nice thing to see

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 7w

Once*

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 7w

Yeah, I can see that. Especially since it’s something you like, it’s a nice nod to post a Photo of you when you guys go on dates

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 7w

Yes!! Thats all just a picture of us after a formal or a date or a day we went to do something together is all every day is exhausting to do and i understand that but holidays (birthdays valentines day etc) one story with a heart would be soooo nice to see especially bc i see his friends doing it with their relationships and then i never see it for me it does hurt a bit even tho its small it’s meaningful

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