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how can i tell if a guy likes me when we are dating/going out. Ive seen and heard (and experienced) fucking with girls they dont even like so is there a difference between guys who just are bored/dont like the girl vs actually interested?
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Anonymous 10w

Really depends on the dude, each kind of guy shows interest in different ways as often women do. the other thing is to not draw conclusions of a man being uninterested too quickly, many men are unsure early on and can be physically attracted but need time to understand you more before they can truly show affection. If he’s all over you before he knows who you are it’s either his dick or romantic obsession.

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Anonymous 10w

I’m not sure of your exact situation but I have definitely stopped talking to women because early on my judgment is obscured by butterflies and I am left hallucinating a connection until they disappear. I would classify it as romantic obsession because it seems like the relationship was fueled by novelty in some way and there was a lack of deeper interest, I am not 100% sure of the remedy but let me think for a few hours.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 10w

Its more like i have a month long period where im dating a guy, hes happy, showing me affection verbally amd physically, says he wants long term, and then doesnt text as much, starts being rude, and puts in 0 effort, I literally had one guy say he was never interested in the first place, so Im trying to get better at recognizing when someone doesn’t like me before being invested

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 10w

Don’t let em hit on the 1st or 2nd date

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 10w

i don’t 😭

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