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Being a man sucks in terms of the fact that you know women are so desired but very few (and in my case, absolutely no one) desire us. Women are seen as treasures, men are seen as trash 😔
12 upvotes, 24 comments. Sidechat image post by Anonymous in Ask Men. "Being a man sucks in terms of the fact that you know women are so desired but very few (and in my case, absolutely no one) desire us. Women are seen as treasures, men are seen as trash 😔"
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Anonymous 12w

Not always. I think it’s strange that some guys think women can always get guys

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Anonymous 12w

And who set that system up

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Anonymous 12w

It’s inflation

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Anonymous 12w

It’s the opposite situation with me and my bf

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Anonymous 12w

this is a biased take that isn't based on any evidence other than your own personal experiences. even with that being said, of course they way you feel is valid. however to say "men are seen as trash" in a world that systematically favors men is just ignorant.

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Anonymous 11w

Women are seen as objects to be desired and not as human beings with autonomy

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 12w

Thanks Obama

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 12w

If you’re conventionally attractive as a woman you can, meanwhile a conventionally attractive man may struggle greatly still

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 12w

It’s frowned upon to be seen as a lock that opens for many keys.

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 12w

God ig? Idk it’s biology

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 12w

The vast majority of them can. Literally all they have to do is put some effort into their appearance and not lock themselves in their room 24/7

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 12w

It’s not always good attention. The vast majority of women I have talked to have been assaulted. That’s not guys anyone should be with. Also guys can also put effort into their appearance and get girls

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 12w

That may be true but it’s not the point. They are extremely desired. And putting in effort to appearance only marginally helps, you’re forgetting the fact that men aren’t desired

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 12w

it's not, that would be this is pseudoscience

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 12w

They are though. Men are desired. You’re just not looking in the right place then. My girlfriend found me and asked me out

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 12w

Humans aren't locks nor keys

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 12w

Good for you, but an exception to the rule

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 12w

Idek what that means. Don’t say the patriarchy cuz I’m sure that’s what is gonna be brought up next, look at many other animal species. The males have to show off and compete for the females and those that fail don’t mate. Humans are similar. No one in particular is to blame for this, it’s just how it is

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 12w

Just looked it up and what I said is literal fact

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 12w

except thats just not the case with humans. you're right, most animal species the males have to show off and the females are the ones who choose, and if yeah if they don't get chosen they don't mate. there r plenty of very shitty men out there who don't have anything to offer the world yet are still in relationships. due to a plethora of reasons. due to humans being complex beings. some men manipulate/groom/harassed the women into submission, they aren't just left without a mate.

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 12w

its also making a harmful generalization that women are only desired in a loving way. its cost millions of women their lives bc they were so "desirable"

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 12w

This is the stupidest analogy that idiots parrot online 🙄

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Anonymous replying to -> #11 11w

Well I mean let’s be real 99% of the time relationships start because someone thought the other was attractive and reached out (ex. Walking up in person, DM, following on social media, etc.), now learning about the person is what changes list into real interest or even love But to initially be desired stems from looks on both sides truthfully

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Anonymous replying to -> #11 11w

Even if that were true I still wish I had that

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 11w

Broo no you don’t trust😭

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