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Ask Men 10w
Man asking men question here. What are some steps to not look like a performative male? I wear quarter zips because they’re comfy, and genuinely like my silly iced drinks.
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Anonymous 10w

Don’t even worry about it or change If you like it for itself don’t let ideas online stop you from what you love Just have fun, be you

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Anonymous 10w

If you’re not performing it’s not performative bro just be yourself, who cares

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Anonymous 10w

Laufey is my favorite artist and nobody has ever called me performative. I sing along to the songs in the car or when I’m in my apartment. Keep being yourself king

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Anonymous 10w

Just be you man, people will tell when someone’s faking it

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 10w

Thank you

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 10w

Nw

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 10w

yeah tbh i came off slightly as the performative stereotype before the stereotype was even a thing, and it wasnt even performative. just be yourself bro 🙏

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 10w

same here, except i've been a clairo fan since pretty girl 🤞

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