Man asking men question here. What are some steps to not look like a performative male? I wear quarter zips because they’re comfy, and genuinely like my silly iced drinks.
Don’t even worry about it or change
If you like it for itself don’t let ideas online stop you from what you love
Just have fun, be you
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Anonymous4w
If you’re not performing it’s not performative bro just be yourself, who cares
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Anonymous4w
Laufey is my favorite artist and nobody has ever called me performative. I sing along to the songs in the car or when I’m in my apartment. Keep being yourself king
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Anonymous4w
Just be you man, people will tell when someone’s faking it
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Anonymous4w
Don’t cater your every move to women. Quarter zips are fine, drinks are fine, it’s behavior that people actually care about.
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Anonymous#14w
Thank you
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AnonymousOP4w
Nw
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Anonymous#14w
yeah tbh i came off slightly as the performative stereotype before the stereotype was even a thing, and it wasnt even performative. just be yourself bro 🙏
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Anonymous#44w
same here, except i've been a clairo fan since pretty girl 🤞