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so like talking to this guy who tells me he really likes me, loves when i text him back fast, but then proceeds to leave me on delivered for hours on end. he is in europe rn so im trying to give him some grace but like im confused
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Anonymous 3w

People get busy and different time zones make things complicated; not being able to text for a few hours is completely normal.

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Anonymous 3w

I have some experience with this. A lot of people don’t have international cell plans so they don’t receive text messages unless they’re on wifi. He probably doesn’t mean to do that, but he only actually receives the messages when he connects to wifi at a shop or his lodging or something.

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Anonymous 3w

He’s probably busy doing whatever he’s doing in Europe and not living glued to his phone while there

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

Also some people just aren’t wired to be communicating 24/7. Were the first generation of people who are expected to be reachable every minute of every day, some people aren’t wired for that, doesn’t mean that they don’t like you

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

yeah exactly that’s why i’m trying my best to give him some grace and hope that it’ll be a little bit better when he gets home cause i just feel like im getting mixed signals yk

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