Ask Men on Sidechat | I hate to admit this but I've never made my girl cum. I feel like I've tried a few different things but idk what to do and I've started to feel insecure about it. She says it's fine but she seems disappointed after sex most times and I feel bad

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Ask Men 20h

I hate to admit this but I've never made my girl cum. I feel like I've tried a few different things but idk what to do and I've started to feel insecure about it. She says it's fine but she seems disappointed after sex most times and I feel bad

Anonymous 20h

Have you asked her what she wants, how she gets off, or tried toys?

Anonymous 19h

I hate that there’s pressure like that on us when there’s not nearly the same pressure on women to do the same. Honestly it’s a her problem. If you’re communicating and you’ve tried toys and eating and everything there is to try, there’s no reason she can’t finish.

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Anonymous

#1 20h

Yes, we haven't been able to figure out what feels good. And the few times sex has been good for her I've finished too early or can't stay hard.

Anonymous

OP 19h

Try prioritizing her pleasure and put yourself getting off as secondary. If yall have to take turns for it to be more equitable then so be it

Anonymous

#1 19h

I don't know how to do that though when everything I try doesn't work

Anonymous

OP 19h

Has she tried getting herself off during sex? Why not prioritize her pleasure anyways even if she cant finish from it?

Anonymous

#2 17h

I mean I always finish and she never does so I feel bad. And as much as I feel bad I also don't think it's her fault she can't finish I just don't know what to do tho

Anonymous

#2 6h

Like I don't think she's trying not to finish or faking not finishing so it's not like her fault either. There is clearly a reason she hasn't finished yet we just haven't figure out what it is yet