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why would a guy text you frequently but rarely makes plans
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Anonymous 18w

Maybe he’s unaware that you’d like to do something with him. Ask him if he’d like to do something and I’m sure he’d plan then

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Anonymous 18w

Cause texting is easy, but plans require effort

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Anonymous 18w

He likes talking to you but not enough to make plans or do anything.

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Anonymous replying to -> amethyst_bacon 18w

i did, he agreed, and the plans never came through

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 18w

Well, you could make the plans.

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Anonymous replying to -> amethyst_bacon 18w

i tried :(

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 18w

Drop him cuz he’s playing games

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 18w

Then he’s probably not interested to be completely honest with you

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Anonymous replying to -> freestyle 18w

so just don’t reply to him?

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Anonymous replying to -> amethyst_bacon 18w

so do i stop replying to his texts?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 18w

If you feel that’s the necessary approach. If you’re fine just texting him and not hanging out you don’t need to but if you’re catching feelings and he’s not reciprocating effort then yeah I would stop texting

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Anonymous replying to -> amethyst_bacon 18w

do i communicate this or?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 18w

Imo, yes. Communication is important

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 18w

Like he doesn’t want to date you or anything but you’re fun to text

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