Anonymous #1 3d

I do!

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Anonymous #2 3d

Ngl I did see this and it made me feel like I need to go back to lighter blonde

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Anonymous OP 3d

I think the girl on the right would look nearly as good if that headband wasn’t pulling her hair back

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Anonymous OP 3d

Use that and find ur style, tons of men like dark hair tons like light hair. Find what makes u confident, find clothes u wanna wear

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Anonymous #2 3d

Also the left photo has perfect backlighting, mouth is posed in a like “teasing/sexy” way. It’s more of the confidence that is shown than the person

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Anonymous #1 3d

This! Hair color alone is not gonna change if someone finds you pretty or not overall

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Anonymous #2 3d

I saw guys commenting saying it’s her hair color, eye area, lips etc not just her hair. Also the other girl has a bigger nose which I also have :(

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Anonymous OP 3d

Say you are right (which I just disagree I think both are pretty) it really doesn’t matter. Because you are finding people who like YOU not what you try to be. If so you will continue to be unfulfilled and feel like an impostor

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Anonymous #1 3d

I want to be considered pretty though. It’s important to me. I want to improve myself

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Anonymous OP 3d

Everyone is attracted to different people, make yourself look how you want and style yourself in a way that makes you feel good, not for others. There’s women that I find pretty other guys don’t and women other guys find pretty that I don’t.

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Anonymous OP 3d

But both are pretty…

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Anonymous OP 3d

I would rather date the girl on the right. She’s just as pretty and seems more goofy with the antlers. If both were in the same lighting and makeup it’d be a draw

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Anonymous OP 3d

You’re gonna give yourself a bucket more of insecurities if you’re solely trying to be attractive to men. Ditch the whole male validation thing and just work on glowing up and gaining some self confidence

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Anonymous #4 3d

It’s just hard not to care when guys have never acted like I’m pretty. I want to be considered pretty to them

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Anonymous OP 3d

What would give you evidence that you are pretty ? I guarantee with effort given in the right direction you can attain any dating/romance goal

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Anonymous oranguru 3d

Seeing photos of myself and not seeing everything that’s wrong with it. Having guys approach me, asking me out, making a genuine effort to date me.

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Anonymous OP 3d

Won’t lie to you many of us are just afraid to approach now days

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Anonymous #2 3d

They still approach pretty girls though

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Anonymous OP 3d

The reason why you can hate photos of yourself has nothing to do with objective beauty. Also, most guys don’t approach these days, but I’m sure if you make small efforts to start conversations and build connection you can find people who reciprocate your feelings

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Anonymous oranguru 3d

It does because I do know what I’m supposed to look like and I don’t look like that in photos. Small button nose, full lips, big eyes, defined jawline.

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Anonymous OP 3d

Some people will naturally do better in dating because of their inherent gifts- just like any endeavor in life- but the average person is capable of so much (especially wrt to dating) and you can make up for talent gaps

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Anonymous oranguru 3d

Idk how to fix the things wrong with me without plastic surgery

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Anonymous OP 3d

You don’t need plastic surgery if you want a bf, you just need to control what you can control. Just because some other girl popped out of the womb with a perfect nose and jawline doesn’t mean you should give up

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Anonymous OP 3d

I mean this respectfully, I believe this is the same person who has been here for the last few days talking about needing plastic surgery. Try to detox urself from social media.

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Anonymous #1 3d

Yes social media will convince you that there are no average people. If you open your eyes you will see women and men of all varieties with partners. Unless you really seriously try out dating (with a positive outlook !) for a year or two you have no cause to get plastic surgery

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Anonymous #1 3d

I haven’t been on here in a while actually lol

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Anonymous OP 3d

There’s so many different men on this earth. Beauty is truly subjective, one man could find you beautiful and another could find you ugly. You can work to make yourself look better physically but you need to work on your self esteem.

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Anonymous OP 3d

YikYak is not the problem it’s those damn TikTok’s and reels and Twitter misogynists

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Anonymous oranguru 3d

Idk I feel like I should give up because I really don’t know how a guy could ever find me beautiful when there are those girls who are naturally perfect looking (which guys repeatedly say that they want. Natural girls. Not the ones who try too hard)

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Anonymous #4 3d

I just genuinely don’t know how you could say that when there’s girls on TikTok and instagram who literally blow up because they look a certain way and a bunch of guys find her hot

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Anonymous OP 2d

I’m gonna tell you something that’s hard to hear, but true and ultimately hopeful: Dating is a market and everyone who enters into a relationship makes compromises. We woukd all love to marry a brilliant, exorbitantly wealthy, kind model, but those people don’t exist and we can love people who are imperfect. You don’t need to be flawless to get a partner

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Anonymous oranguru 2d

I could open TikTok or ig and find a thousand guys who are a foot taller than me, more handsome and with better physiques. Despite this all I’ve still found some success dating and I still feel I’m handsome. You’re gonna be miserable if you spend your life resenting that you aren’t a top 0.1% person

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Anonymous OP 2d

I can say that bcus I am involved and present in real life. Yes there are girls who blow up just because they are pretty. There are girls who are not attractive to me, but have boyfriends who love and are attracted to them. Analyze your face and features, if it bothers you that badly, change it. If it’s something you can learn to embrace, embrace it. Whatever you do, just realize it’s you who will live with yourself. Ask yourself if reconstructing your whole face is worth a couple cat calls

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Anonymous oranguru 2d

I’ve just been on social media and have been seeing so many girls on there who are so beautiful and have thousands and thousands of guys saying she’s hot. It just makes me feel like I don’t have any value because I don’t look like them so I’m getting back in the mindset I have to do so many things to glow up to even compare to those girls. And even then I don’t know what colors/hair styles looks good on me.

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Anonymous oranguru 2d

I second this

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Anonymous OP 2d

Your high school math teacher provides enormous value to their community , but they’ll likely never receive public praise in the same way a brilliant research mathematician will. Just because other people are blessed in ways you aren’t doesn’t mean you lack value. And often, the people who receive tons of online validation are the most insecure

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Anonymous #5 1d

If you’re asking objectively tho then hair/skin healthcare, fitness, and a good smile are your best friends

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Anonymous #5 1d

I don’t know what hair looks best on me

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Anonymous #6 1d

I think my biggest problem is I don’t know what my body type is or what hair color/style looks good on me

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Anonymous OP 1d

Not to be blunt, but what color is your skin? Like is it pale or tan? If you're pale, you'll probably want dark hair and if your tan you'll probably want lighter hair

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Anonymous OP 1d

In terms of body type, the traditional rule is that heavierset people will wear baggier clothing to hide their curves. Personally I think that's silly (who doesn't love curves?), so you can do what you want with that. But your body type is mostly to do with how your clothes should be tailored, since you want them to look proportional

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Anonymous #6 1d

Ngl idk? I tan very dark in the summer and don’t burn but in the winter I get paler

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Anonymous #6 1d

Here’s a lil forehead reveal 🤭

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Anonymous OP 1d

🤣

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Anonymous OP 1d

My gut says dark hair but it could def go either way

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Anonymous #6 1d

Rn my hair is the bronde color so she’s both. But idk what looks better. I wish I could send u examples

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Anonymous OP 1d

Could u ask ur friends which they think is better?

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