Ask Men on Sidechat | turns out this guy that played me is like heartbroken? has given up on relationships for the time being. he’s been hurt in the past according to his bff (my coworker that doesn’t know we hooked up) didn’t he realize he did the same to me 😞 like why

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turns out this guy that played me is like heartbroken? has given up on relationships for the time being. he’s been hurt in the past according to his bff (my coworker that doesn’t know we hooked up) didn’t he realize he did the same to me 😞 like why

Anonymous 4w

I’m a girl so I’m sorry if this isn’t the response you’re looking for, but from talking to guys who were like this in the past many of them said that it was a way to put up an emotional wall between them and getting hurt again. You said the guy who played you has been hurt and given up on relationships, trying to act like he doesn’t care to cope with the fact he’s afraid of getting heartbroken as well. In short, he figures if he breaks your heart first you will not be able to break his

Anonymous 4w

somehow i’ve kept my crashouts to myself, he will never know, didn’t text or anything but i cared a lot about him… and i just can’t wrap my head around how he goes off and is casual when he’s a so called “lover boy” like what goes through the minds of guys like this 🧍‍♀️

Anonymous

#1 4w

Not okay for him to do at all and very fucked up, I’m really sorry he did that to you - that’s just my guess based on people I’ve talked to

Anonymous

#1 4w

thats a very likely reason ngl

Anonymous

#1 4w

i actually like this response and kind of what i expected/hoped i can’t even blame a hurt person. people make mistakes. it sucks but whatever. it’s been a few weeks and i’ll continue not saying anything about it nd silently hope he heals? i honestly don’t think he knows the extent of things so yeah

Anonymous

OP 4w

Props to you girl, I really hope you find someone who’s emotionally ready