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why is it so hard for men to not be hypocrites? bf has standards he expects of me which are totally reasonable so obviously i hold him to the same, but he breaks them all the time and justifies it when he does like he’s immune
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Anonymous 11w

I find that this is prevalent amongst all humans. Some more so than others. If it bothers you enough, you can separate. It sounds like you’re already past the communication stage

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Anonymous 11w

Women do the same 🤷‍♂️

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Anonymous 11w

Sounds like you’re past giving him the benefit of the doubt, and onto vilifying him, so probably time to break up. If you can’t work through your partners faults or talk to them about it the relationship is destined to implode in the near future.

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Anonymous 11w

This was covered in patriarchy 131 when we guys were taught that we're entitled to women's bodies. I think it was right after the applied gaslighting unit.

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Anonymous 11w

Example?

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 11w

it’s just hard and sad. been with him 5 years and at one point was never more sure he was the man i was going to marry

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Anonymous replying to -> napcat 11w

There is no patriarchy 131 class, you’re mistaking it with patriarchy 141. There also wasn’t a gaslighting unit, but there was a small section about being a “girlboss” whatever that means

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 11w

he always tells me if i do something to him to apologize and that’s it, don’t try to explain myself just say sorry. but then when i ask for the same, it’s like he’ll die if he says sorry. he’ll do anything he can to try to explain himself and work around an apology

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 11w

That’s the struggle of time, you never know if somebody’s environment will cause them to grow closer together or further apart.

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 11w

I see you learned well young one

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