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i have the fattest friend crush on this guy and i really really really wanna just hang out and yap with him bc he’s cool but i don’t want him to think im hitting on him and get weirded out what do i say!!!!
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Anonymous 5w

do the stuff you would do to become friends with a girl, but try to mention your boyfriend/guy crushes to him as a not-so subtle sign you don't see him that way

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Anonymous 5w

Talk to him about guys you like.m. My girl friends would do that often. It was very clear there was nothing there.

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Anonymous 5w

What is friend crush

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5w

that seems too vague and i’m single

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

oh wait i getchu. gossip with him and mention you have a real crush on so-and-so or that your type is [something that he isn't]

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5w

nah i wanna talk to him about conspiracy theories i don’t like any lame ass guys rn

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

well then just talk to him about conspiracy theories lol, that was just as a way to get him to know you aren't into him. beyond that its just a crapshoot, but genuinely just treat homeboy the way you treat your homegirls

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5w

I NEED TO BE HIS FRIEND HE IS SO COOL AND WE LIKE MANY SIMILAR THINGS but we don’t talk like super often what if i say “idk if this is weird but i really like our conversations can we be friends and like actually hang out sometime”

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

Just start talking to them more

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 5w

yeah most people are open to being friends with you, just make an effort to text and talk more. and just invite him to do something with you, no nerd to make a big spectacle about how you're friend-asking him out. that way it can be low pressure

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5w

won’t he take that as me flirting if i ask him to come to stuff

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 5w

are you stupid

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

Lord forbid I’ve never heard a term before

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 5w

well come on man context clues

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

I’ve never heard someone say friend crush why didn’t you just say I want to be this guys friend. Friend crush sounds like you bout to send him to the shadow realm (friend zone)

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