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I just saw a tiktok about guys “ideal type” and it made me feel so insecure about myself. Do guys really like girls that are brunette, freckles, blue eyes, under 115 lbs, big butt, small waist, tanned?
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Anonymous 1d

If you see a tiktok and feel insecure you need to be removed from the gene pool💀

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Anonymous 1d

sure, guys do. that being said, having a type that specific is ridiculous and not realistic. obviously there are bad apples who act that way, but the majority of men will tell you that as long as they find you attractive and they vibe with your personality they will GENUINELY like you

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Anonymous 19h

I’m sure this is someone’s ideal type, but it’s definitely not everyone’s ideal type. Don’t worry about being someone’s type until you have someone you like. If you aren’t there exact type, most guys aren’t really that picky when it comes to looks anyways

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Anonymous 18h

That’s just the type of whoever made the video. Just like girls, guys aren’t a monolith and different men can find different things attractive. I mean, I’m not everyone’s type, because no one is. But, I’ve had some success regardless. It’s really not that deep, you know? There’s someone for you out there.

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Anonymous 1d

I mean yes. I ain’t gonna lie. But what are you gonna do? I’m short and have a small dick. You just gotta learn to live with it, and also realize some people don’t care

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Anonymous 1d

Everyone has a different type

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1d

Also under 115 is really unhealthy for a majority of women

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

I just genuinely don’t believe any guy would ever find me beautiful after seeing videos like that ngl.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

Like I just don’t look anything like that. I’m blonde not brunette, I don’t have blue eyes, i don’t have freckles, I don’t have a super tiny waist, I don’t have a huge ass, I’m skinny but I’m not the “ideal body shape”. I’m literally the opposite of the ideal in every way

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1d

This is false dude…height and where is stored is a huge determining factor of weight. I’m a woman. But I am 5’6 110. But if a woman is 5’0 there’s mainly less places to store fat but she would still be healthy at 125. This comment is just so confidently wrong. Fat distribution is mainly on genetics

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1d

I don’t workout, like I said I’m 5’6 112lbs and I don’t workout at all. I am so lucky genetically because I still have “abs”, small legs, and a tiny waist along with big hips. And I am skinny. It’s all about genetics and fat stores and clearly you know nothing about that. I’m not saying someone who is 5’6 240lbs is healthy. But again, fat stores are different for everyone and height is one of those factors on weight

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

There are bigger women with partners, there are bigger men with partners. Not every man is looking for the same woman, not every woman is looking for the same man. I see guys online that have a stronger jawline and physique than me, but I can’t let that get to me and be sad all the time. The best I can do is work to be the best version of myself to me that there can be

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1d

Holy shit I am a FUCKING idiot…I apologize…I read “115 is really healthy for women” Jesus I am so sorry

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 1d

Dawg 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1d

Please forgive me 🙏 I’m an exercise science major so anytime I can talk about stuff like this I go all out 🫩

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 1d

I was so confused

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1d

I guess for me I just don’t feel good enough at all because I’ve never been in a relationship and I don’t feel like I’m pretty enough for a relationship with guys

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

I sometimes feel the same way but you can’t listen or feed into that self doubt, you have to nip it in the ass

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1d

I’m sorry 😔

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

you don't need to look anything like that. every ethnicity has beautiful women and they all look different. beauty is subjective. personality is also extremely important. i really doubt you're ugly and as long as you have a genuine and great personality i promise you're going to be okay in life

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

It just doesn’t feel like beauty is subjective tbh. I feel like I’ve been repeatedly told what I’m supposed to look like.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

If you fix a cultural environment, it’s true that beauty is not completely subjective. That doesn’t mean there’s uniform agreement on what’s ideal. Moreover, it’s possible for people to fall in love with people who have physical flaws. Many ordinary looking men and women date with little trouble. You’re probably capable of falling in love with someone who doesn’t meet every beauty standard, and men do the same

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

Look how you wanna look

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

it genuinely is. me and my friends all have different types in our friend group. men all have different preferences.

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