Ask Men on Sidechat | I just saw a tiktok about guys “ideal type” and it made me feel so insecure about myself. Do guys really like girls that are brunette, freckles, blue eyes, under 115 lbs, big butt, small waist, tanned?

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Ask Men 23w

I just saw a tiktok about guys “ideal type” and it made me feel so insecure about myself. Do guys really like girls that are brunette, freckles, blue eyes, under 115 lbs, big butt, small waist, tanned?

Anonymous 23w

If you see a tiktok and feel insecure you need to be removed from the gene pool💀

Anonymous 23w

sure, guys do. that being said, having a type that specific is ridiculous and not realistic. obviously there are bad apples who act that way, but the majority of men will tell you that as long as they find you attractive and they vibe with your personality they will GENUINELY like you

Anonymous 23w

I’m sure this is someone’s ideal type, but it’s definitely not everyone’s ideal type. Don’t worry about being someone’s type until you have someone you like. If you aren’t there exact type, most guys aren’t really that picky when it comes to looks anyways

Anonymous 23w

I mean yes. I ain’t gonna lie. But what are you gonna do? I’m short and have a small dick. You just gotta learn to live with it, and also realize some people don’t care

Anonymous 23w

Everyone has a different type

Anonymous

#3 23w

Also under 115 is really unhealthy for a majority of women

Anonymous

#1 23w

I just genuinely don’t believe any guy would ever find me beautiful after seeing videos like that ngl.

Anonymous

#1 23w

Like I just don’t look anything like that. I’m blonde not brunette, I don’t have blue eyes, i don’t have freckles, I don’t have a super tiny waist, I don’t have a huge ass, I’m skinny but I’m not the “ideal body shape”. I’m literally the opposite of the ideal in every way

Anonymous

OP 23w

There are bigger women with partners, there are bigger men with partners. Not every man is looking for the same woman, not every woman is looking for the same man. I see guys online that have a stronger jawline and physique than me, but I can’t let that get to me and be sad all the time. The best I can do is work to be the best version of myself to me that there can be

Anonymous 23w

Dawg 😭

Anonymous 23w

I was so confused

Anonymous

#3 23w

I guess for me I just don’t feel good enough at all because I’ve never been in a relationship and I don’t feel like I’m pretty enough for a relationship with guys

Anonymous

OP 23w

I sometimes feel the same way but you can’t listen or feed into that self doubt, you have to nip it in the ass

Anonymous

OP 23w

you don't need to look anything like that. every ethnicity has beautiful women and they all look different. beauty is subjective. personality is also extremely important. i really doubt you're ugly and as long as you have a genuine and great personality i promise you're going to be okay in life

Anonymous

#1 23w

It just doesn’t feel like beauty is subjective tbh. I feel like I’ve been repeatedly told what I’m supposed to look like.

Anonymous

OP 23w

If you fix a cultural environment, it’s true that beauty is not completely subjective. That doesn’t mean there’s uniform agreement on what’s ideal. Moreover, it’s possible for people to fall in love with people who have physical flaws. Many ordinary looking men and women date with little trouble. You’re probably capable of falling in love with someone who doesn’t meet every beauty standard, and men do the same

Anonymous

OP 23w

Look how you wanna look

Anonymous

OP 23w

it genuinely is. me and my friends all have different types in our friend group. men all have different preferences.