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What are signs that a guy is serious about you vs when they are using you temporarily?
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Anonymous 1d

Talk about future plans and see if they get uncomfortable

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Anonymous 1d

Also just asking other guys to see what kind of person they are

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Anonymous 10h

my 2 cents would be attentiveness like not always a horny conversation like maybe horny conversation like 10% of the time and the other 90% like wholesome or deep conversations because why would we want to share some deep stuff if we are only using you temporarily like that gives you leverage to hurt us and wouldn’t be a smart move for something temporary

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 19h

that's actually probably the smartest thing I've read on this app

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 19h

We’ve actually talked about this before but it came out of nowhere because we were talking about our majors and what we want to do in life. I probably should ask specifically because in this moment it just came up from talking about school

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 14h

Thank you!

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 11h

maybe men are different so hopefully that would work because like we are more direct about it but i’ve talked to a woman about like future plans and like a week later she said “oh you were serious? sorry i was kidding” so maybe it’ll just be something that works on guys but not the other way around

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