there’s plenty of things you can do before going all the way. if you can’t handle that then yall aren’t good together. but if you really loved her, you would work around her boundaries, not walk away.
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Anonymous21w
I don’t mind waiting, in fact I prefer to wait multiple months into a relationship before having sex, but for a long term relationship sexual compatibility is an important thing to consider so I don’t think I’d ever wait until marriage
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Anonymous21w
bet thanks everyone, lust is a sin either way 🙂↕️
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Anonymous21w
Yeah, because I am too
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Anonymous21w
Get a hobby and make something of yourself. Infact you could probably find someone you like at places for your hobby since you’ll have something in common with them
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Anonymous21w
That’s so surprising…when I’d tell men I’m dating that I’m a virgin but I just want to find a loving long lasting partnership and build that first they leave early on😭😭 I don’t even tell them I’m waiting till marriage cause I’m not
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Anonymous#121w
100%
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Anonymous#721w
That’s because a Venn diagram of the men you’re dating and the men in this app is just two separate circles that don’t overlap
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Anonymous#121w
I’d go one step further, if you really loved her, you wouldn’t even need ‘workarounds’ to her boundaries that are technically not going all the way. You should be able to just respect her and wait, period.