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Not a question but thought yall would relate to this 😭
89 upvotes, 23 comments. Sidechat image post by Anonymous in Ask Men. "Not a question but thought yall would relate to this 😭"
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Anonymous 8w

Hopefully the take away from this isn’t that fat shaming women is okay. They take away should be that we need to have broader conversations about body shaming when it comes to men

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Anonymous 8w

Hello everyone, we have an opportunity for an actual real discussion here… act accordingly

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Anonymous 8w

You can change your weight but you can’t change your height. Nuff said.

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Anonymous 8w

FUCK YOU GOOGLE

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Anonymous 8w

Just don’t date fat girls if you don’t want to?

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Anonymous 8w

Pff whoever I was talking to deleted their comments after calling my reaction pissy and child like. Its alright to admit you were wrong, I’m wrong all the time.

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Anonymous 8w

While both height and weight are indicators of moral character, weight is a significantly stronger one.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 8w

^^^

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 8w

I dont know if I agree. I think someone can be tall or short and lack morals or be an asshole. You cant change your height. And someone’s weight CAN be an indicator of morals but its also either luck or discipline. You can have a fat person thats a good person/has morals, their only shortcoming is not having the discipline to change habits.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 8w
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Anonymous replying to -> #2 8w

Or poor genetics that makes it incredibly difficult to lose weight. You always forget that it’s not as simple as ā€œlose weightā€ it takes discipline, yes, but it also requires luck from your parents and grandparents. To be skinny is largely up to that. Some people’s body’s healthy weight is 120, some people’s is 190, even 210. Depends on the person

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 8w

I agree Thats why I said it’s either luck OR discipline. Im skinny and mostly store fat in my hips because of genetics. I also have a fast metabolism so I eat a large amount of food. Dumb luck

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 8w

ā€œTheir only shortcoming is not having the discipline to change habitsā€ this is the line I was addressing. Someone can have the discipline all they want and the scale won’t go down

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 8w

I also said ā€œa fat personā€ so ā€œtheir only shortcomingā€ is referring to this one individual example because its all in one sentence. Bro why are people so quick to be argumentative and nitpick jesus😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 8w

I’m not nitpicking, I’m just addressing what you said. Can’t have a formal discussion? You’re the one getting pressed over me acknowledging word for word your response.

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 8w

I can have a formal discussion but your only goal is to prove your take which I already agreed on. ā€œA fat personā€ followed by ā€œtheirā€ is grammatically correct as far as I know. And it means I’m talking about one specific example, one person. Not generalising for all fat people. I agreed with you but you refuse to acknowledge my point.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 8w

You cannot have a formal discussion. I mentioned something you said, you changed what you intended. That’s it. You’re just repeating yourself over and over. Your original sentence was good, the second sentence completely negated everything prior.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 8w

Then you got pissy and whined like a child

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 8w

Bro what?😭 The second sentence is completely valid. One fat person might not be losing weight because they lack discipline. Another fat person might not be losing weight because of genetics, stress, depression. I just gave one example. And I acknowledged thats its just dumb luck sometimes. I never changed what I intended considering I can quote myself word for word and it was said in one sentence. Thats how you use English. Excuse me if my response came of pissy.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 8w
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Anonymous replying to -> #8 8w

I js know you fat as fuck

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 8w

I was yeah, which is why I know genetics is a huge factor. Sorry I’m skinny now? Embarrassing for you to be dead wrong

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 8w

I know everyone stops talking as soon as you walk in a room

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 8w

Sure babes, you do know that… sure…

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