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i’m really tired of getting to know guys, constantly explaining that i have some mental health stuff going on, past shit trauma, etc. and then they find out about it and flip their kid and go ballistic like i haven’t been trying to tell them for months
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Anonymous 3d

Yea I get it unfortunately (man who struggles to connect romantically due to trauma and mental health issues) it’s hard when people don’t know, because explaining will never be how it is in the moment

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Anonymous 3d

now i get to feel like the sore thumb and like im psychotic. this fucking sucks i wish i was normal. i hate (most) men

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Anonymous 3d

Fix yourself before getting into a relationship

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3d

yeah i wanna blurt out all my lore and every fucked up thing about me in the first conversation so i can get it all out of my system

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3d

Yea that isn’t gonna work well 😭develop trust and u can say some things but it’s gonna be not enjoyable being trauma dumped

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3d

oh i know. i don’t trauma dump like ever but the urge is always there

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3d

I understand. I’m sorry I wish I had like advice idk it’s tough

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3d

yeah it’s just UGHH

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3d

i’m in therapy twice a week since i was 11. i’m doing better

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