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if your boy cheats on a women do you cut him off?

Anonymous 4w

Yea

Anonymous 4w

Depends on how he behaves after. If he immediately tells her and apologizes then we can stay boys, but if he’s just going around town behind his girl’s back ion wanna be around that😭

Anonymous 4w

i cant stand cheaters. only time i wouldnt cut him off is if he's family, but i still wouldnt want to be around him often

Anonymous 4w

Depends

Anonymous

#1 4w

good

Anonymous

#3 4w

on what?

Anonymous

#4 4w

i can see this. personally it would take some space and id need to physically see the change in their behavior before i accept them, bc anyone can confess & apologize but that doesn't mean they have the intention of being faithful.

Anonymous

OP 4w

Well I also see it as you owe your friends some sort of loyalty. We all make awful decisions (i’ve personally never cheated or anything like that, but i’ve made decisions I regret for sure.) my friends didn’t abandon me they just called me out on my dumb shit then I became a better person from then on. It’s definitely a personal decision you have to make, but when given the opportunity I have to believe that i’d want to better him instead of leave him.

Anonymous

OP 4w

I don’t associate with people just on moral grounds so the act of cheating alone is not going to make me immediately drop someone. It depends on the whole circumstance and all of its factors. If it makes me realize the guy is not someone I can trust, whether it be because he’s too stupid or too selfish or too fake, then I don’t want him around, but honestly that’s not really the story cheating usually tells me, at least at our ages. Or if he seems really inescapably corny and cringes me out.