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Ask Men 33w

how do i confess to my guy friend/coworker without making him uncomfortable? i’m afraid he sees me as just a friend/colleague/little sister and i can’t get over this crush unless we date or he rejects me

Anonymous 33w

Well sometimes when they realize you like them they start to look at you differently(more romantic way) so don’t worry too much

Anonymous 33w

Guys in general are a lot harder to make uncomfortable in expressing interest in them than women are, so I wouldn’t be too worried about inadvertently making him uncomfortable.

Anonymous 33w

I mean, that’s always the risk of being vulnerable to someone

Anonymous

#1 33w

i got him a cold soda before our joint shift outdoors bc it was hot i hope he liked it

Anonymous

OP 33w

that’s unrelated to the post i’m just really nervous so it came out lol

Anonymous

#2 33w

is there anything i SHOULD be worried about/mindful of when i tell him?

Anonymous

OP 33w

Idk, nothing immediately comes to mind. What are you thinking of saying?

Anonymous

#2 33w

i like you. you don’t need to respond right away, but i just needed to get this off of my chest. if you don’t feel the same way i totally get that too, but i still think you’re really cool and i hope that we can still be friends

Anonymous

OP 33w

That sounds good!

Anonymous

#2 33w

okay 😓 thank you for your input i appreciate it!!

Anonymous

OP 33w

Ofc!