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how do i confess to my guy friend/coworker without making him uncomfortable? i’m afraid he sees me as just a friend/colleague/little sister and i can’t get over this crush unless we date or he rejects me
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Anonymous 5d

Well sometimes when they realize you like them they start to look at you differently(more romantic way) so don’t worry too much

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Anonymous 5d

Guys in general are a lot harder to make uncomfortable in expressing interest in them than women are, so I wouldn’t be too worried about inadvertently making him uncomfortable.

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Anonymous 4d

I mean, that’s always the risk of being vulnerable to someone

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Anonymous 4d

He's a man. He will be down bad for you.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5d

i got him a cold soda before our joint shift outdoors bc it was hot i hope he liked it

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5d

that’s unrelated to the post i’m just really nervous so it came out lol

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 5d

is there anything i SHOULD be worried about/mindful of when i tell him?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5d

Idk, nothing immediately comes to mind. What are you thinking of saying?

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 4d

i like you. you don’t need to respond right away, but i just needed to get this off of my chest. if you don’t feel the same way i totally get that too, but i still think you’re really cool and i hope that we can still be friends

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4d

That sounds good!

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 4d

okay 😓 thank you for your input i appreciate it!!

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4d

Ofc!

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